Helahel

ZAHRA

37 - Sunni

Java, Indonesia

Oct 24, 2020 23:42

Brother,
I am not ready for polygamy.
But I respect if you choose polygamy.
I wish you prepare yourself, your wife and family not only with enough preparation about needs such as house and other things, but also about knowledge to live with polygamy.
Polygamy maybe a solution for you and family.

You can say in polygamy no need to ask permission from wife. But I think it is better to be honest with wife and family also not hiding a new wife that can bring problem in the future.

If you are separated. Please get things finished and legalized first from your wife. I don't want to have conflicts with your family.

If you are SINGLE AND READY to marry a wife from other country, JUST VISIT ME.

IF AFTER VISIT AND SEEING ME, YOU DON'T LIKE, YOU ARE FREE.

I DON'T LiKE TO SHOW FACE ONLINE OR SEND PICTURE TO MEN. PLEASE DON'T ASK.

IF YOU CAN'T VISIT TO SEE ME, DON'T WASTE OUR TIME FOR CHAT.

If your priority is beauty, maybe you need to think again what is your reason to marry. For me deen and good characters are important to have a happy family.

I am about 1.55 m and 62 kg.
I finish high school and cook for a home. I like to enjoy my life and be happy, also to have fun time with my husband later.

I want a supportive husband who can make me his love one and queen. Because wife duty is to Alloh and help husband bed things, so you can't complain her because she is not your maid. But if she does more than her duty so you are lucky and need to thank her.

If you think you can make me happy, will take care me in dunya until jannah you can message me.

I love fun time together and I don't like conflicts, but you must understand that sometimes I am childish and jealousy so you need to be patient, say sorry first and know how to make me laugh again in the same day.

Born muslim and revert are welcome, as long as serious to learn together to be better in serving Alloh.

If you are emotional or not patient, please just leave me, I am not here to argue about preference because I am lack of knowledge and maybe you have better knowledge. I wish these hadiths help us to only have good talk.

From Abu Umamah narrated :
The prophet pbuh said, I guarantee a home in paradise for the ones who leaves off arguing even he is right. (Abu Dawud).

From Abu Hurairah narrated:
He who believes in Alloh and the last day must either speak good or remain silent. (Muslim).

From Abu Darda narrated :
Don't get angry and paradise will be yours. (Ath Thabrani).