assalaamu alaykum wah rah mahtulaahi wa barakaatu, firstly' all thanks and praises and glorifications is for ALLAHswt alone, who is THE LORD of MAJESTY, LORD of THE GREAT THRONE, HIGH and EXHAULTED IS ALLAHswt above the seven heavens in a manner that befits HIS MAJESTY, OH' ALLAH there is none comparable onto YOU, SUBHAANALAAH' YOU have created the male and female one from another [Huwa created from Adaam] and YOU have placed love and mercy between their hearts'subhaanakahAllahummah so give me a loving and merciful wife that are obedient to YOU' OH ALLAH and YOUR Messenger[saw] and a wife that spend ALLAH's given days and nights enjoining the good and forbidding what is wrong, oh ALLAH give a wife that stay totally away from all YOU have prohibited and she do as much as she can from all that YOU have commanded to do alhamdullilaahirabilaalamiin, ///// reminders and advices from sunnah to those who seek to marry: race to marry,make seeking marriage and living in a marriage easy relax,simple and not complicated, so that fornication and adultery would be hard to commit, the most simple wedding are the best ones[not big crowd and big money spending and haram activities] one is marry for 1 or 4 reasons but the one obligatory reason out of the 4 is the only reason that makes a muslim marriage successful in this temporary world and in the hereafter, and that reason is marrying because of the Deen[your partner is fearing and mindful of ALLAH' so he/she obey ALLAHswt and HIS Messenger[saw] and enjoin the halal and forbid the haram] the worldly succession of a Islamic marriage is the half completion of ones Deen' so we see the succession related back to the Deen so if a man or woman make one of the other 3 reasons or the whole 3 of them in one go their forefront and wrongly placed obligatory reasons for success in their Islamic[deen] marriage, then they wont have that Islamic marriage success[remember the wordly success that marrying for the Deen gives is the half completion of the Deen]so marrying for wealth,beauty and good family lineage is applicable within the equation and the prophet[saw] stated that people will be marrying for those aswel be the key thing here is that none of thos 3 are not the obligatory ingredient for Islamic marriage success in this dunyah[half completion of deen] in succession in the hereafter [reward for the half completion-because a sister or a brother who is very pious and fair ALLAH and obedient to ALLAH and HIS Messenger[saw] would desire pious children with their husband/wife that prays for them after they die and a pious husband/wife will invite each other in doing good deeds for ALLAH's sake only and also to give sadaqah jaariyah,] and this is the true success of a Islamic marriage in the hereafter cause the prophet[saw] says: that pious children praying for parents,good deeds and ongoing charity' are the only three things that lives on after a person death, He[saw] say; don't marry because beauty it may possible that a person beauty may destroy them, and don't marry because wealth cause wealth might make a person rebellious and He[saw] also said; if anyone of you slowdown[from moving towards the jennah over the bridge that goes over the hellfire] on the day of judgement then your good or high status family lineage wont give you a push./assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi wah barakaatu
