Your race is fine.
My current wife is Malay. We met over the internet 21 years ago from different countries. We are successful in Internet initiated rationships. You can invest in us.
SHUKRAN FOR THE TIME
Insha allah if you happen by this profile and you wish to prove the statements I make here, please do go ahead reach out for a response.
REASON
I may not see you or may pass you by, because of what follows below.
(1) I may think you are too beautiful, suba ana allah
(2) I may think you are too young, suba ana allah.
(3) I may think i am not suitable to you in some other way
If you think those assumptions on my part are incorrect, please do correct on it, even if that is the only reason for your contact. Al hamdulillah
Keep in mind
Sisters choose who they will have children with.
But it's brothers that choose who we marry.
INVESTMENT
Don't burn day light chasing anyone
The right one don't run
Investing in anyone based on just liking them promise only emotional returns which are not guaranteed.
Choose wisely and invest on someone based on how much they will invest in you in time, welfare, resources and your productivity.
PERMISSIBLE DUNYA ADVANTAGES FOR HEJIRAH
Marry me and gain two (2) countries and three (3) cultures.(Islam.has its own culture and that is paramount)
Easiest way to learn a new language.
Every day a new personal, social, cultural national discovery.
Have blended families, enrichen and deepen your knowledge and experiences.
Learn tolerance and respect the hands-on way all within Islam
IMAGE ICON
The default image icon is a permissible place-holder.
Photograph(s) insha allah will be exchanged with qualified candidates.
Our Islamic conduct on both sides will qualify each other to exchange photograph at the right time.
Right time is organic - we will both know it when we get there.
Yusuf Ali: O mankind! We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (not that ye may despise (each other). Verily the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is (he who is) the most righteous of you. And Allah has full knowledge and is well acquainted (with all things).Quran 49:13
DISCLOSURE
I DON'T need to be sponsored to your country.
You can live in my countries.
I am not trying to escape my country.
I have a SG passport and ASEAN and international business travel credentials. I can meet you or your wali in your country or I can pay your ticket to see me.
Insha allah
What follows is a general global vision of what you should expect and what you should hold me accountable to provide.
These are the Islamic first terms and guarantee that insha Allah will determine how we commence, the balance we do together as Islam instructs.
Please feel free to copy and save these words as a reference and talking points of the clearest possible picture of our future together.
The intention is to provide
Insha allah
(0) Your own deserving space and time to both for you and us=two together, completely free from others)
(1) Islamically stable, satisfied and provided for;
(2) Pain free as best as I can afford, (I cannot keep you healthy, that is your responsibility, but your environment will be healthy);
(3) Worry-free from any of my conduct, (what you worry about must be your own choice);
(4) Emotionally Secure in your position as wife.(not senior, nor junior, nor second nor third, etc, just wife.)
(5) Your own place with y/our own possessions (visiting others is your choice as is your Islamic comfort)
(6) A blended ready-made family willing to include you as you Islamically permit.(You say when you meet others.)
(7) All your Islamic Rights As ISLAM instructs.(Even the ones you don't "like". Allah(swt) Is my Lord (swt) not you.)
(8) Space, Time and lattitude to preoccupy yourself with your own permissible interests (I would like to know that you are interested in what I do to get the finances to keep you permissibly comfortable);
(9) Blended family time, your people, my people when necessary and agreed.(i would like to know that we can pray and play and travel together)
May Allah(swt) grant me the deserving spouse that I dua for and provide me with wisdom, time, resource to deliver on all my intentions. Aameen aameen al hamdulillahi rabbil aalameen.
SOCIAL MEDIA STATEMENT
Some Sisters have asked me to Address my Social Media Usage.
I have none, need none, never used any, that includes all my family as they act with their own acquired and applied Islamic aqeedah. I salute their discipline and encourage that Allah(swt) is sufficient for us.
If you do use Social media, then to the extent that you do, you have less time for Islam and its adabs and it makes you a perfect match for others not me.
CONSERVATIVES/LIBERALS
Some sisters have asked me to address if I am moderate.
I am not tagged, by others' labels nor mine own
I leave symbols for the symbol-minded.
I am not conservative, nor liberal, nor moderate to suit no one's comfort of who or what I am.
Islam is already the middle religion.
The Christians say Man/ISA(as) is God(swt)
The Muslims say Allah(swt) is God(swt)
The Jews say God(swt) is Man/Ezra
I am Muslim. I fear Allah(swt) and Fear Allah(swt) for my sins.
"And when a party of them said, Why do you admonish a people whom God would destroy, or whom He would chastise with a severe torment? they said: To be free from blame before your Lord, perchance they may fear God"
WHO
I am
A Revert of 22 years, al hamdullilah.
Singapore Citizen
Resident in Singapore for 20years
Snr Islamic Business & IT Consultant
Operates Own Company & Business in Singapore
Happily Married
Seeking Second Marriage for Business expansion in the region.
LOOKING FOR
A muslimah, who is permissibly covered, obeys all of Islam, not just selected portions, loves education, has a quick wit, smiles a lot, requires Islamic security in a world of darkness, where Islam is the only beacon of light.
EXPLANATION FOR THOSE WHO REQUIRE IT
(Al hamdulillah for Islam)
APPEARANCE DRESS & BEHAVIOUR
Islamically dapper, and socially aware, evolved with behavioral refinements. (Western Gentleman with Islamic Adabs)
APPEARANCE PHYSICAL
Al hamdulillah
Able-bodied, Slim (no fat, no paunch) Athletic, shaved head(not bald) 6ft'1inch, short beard of pepper and salt colour.
SOCIAL MEDIA SAVVY(IT Professional)
But No social media presence.
PHOTOGRAPHS
Insha allah
Available to parties who see me as suitable candidate.
MY REMINDERS
Beware of Satan, for the safety of your religion. He has lost all hope that he will ever be able to lead you astray in big things, so beware of following him in small things.
WHATS AVAILABLE
(Managing Your Expectations)
PERSONAL
(Al hamdulillah, by Allah's(swt) Leave And Mercies)
(0) Black World-aware, trained, educated, ambitious and accomplished permissibly neat, permissibly "non-boring" bearded and shaved, not bald Muslim Spouse with deep and wide cross-disciplinary skillsets with own Business-IT Consulting Operations, Consulting both on conventional and Muslim operations, but specializes in transitioning Conventional Operations to Permissible Operations.
(1) Islamically and chronologically mature Muslim Spouse with Islamic Right Conduct enjoining you the right and forbidding you the wrong.
(2) Islamically and chronologically mature Muslim Spouse that provides wife with her complete Islamic Rights and enables her to make the most of enjoying those Rights.
(3) Muslim Spouse that observes both sunnah and wajib rituals and conduct, salat, saum, zakat, umrah etc.
(4) Muslim Spouse with Muslim Adhabs all the time.
(5) Muslim Spouse who dresses like and speak like a Muslim all the time.
(6) Muslim spouse who is covered and look like a Muslim matching his wife's Muslim dress and not allow her to be covered Islamically while he dresses like Westerner.
(7) Insha Allah, Islamic Support and Protection for life of Relationship.
(8) Guaranteed support and acceptance and family integration from very sincere knowledgible and pious Muslim wife.
(8) Islamically quiet and sound nikah with agreed practical and furure-proofed dowry.
FAMILY
(Insha allah, by Allah's(swt) Leave And Mercies)
(0) Educated and Ambitious and accomplished Muslim family members awaiting your arrival.
(1) Blended and happy Muslim family members with guaranteed sincere affection and worry-free treatment.
(2) Islamically supportive and receptive family members.
(3) Your rights and unenvied time as agreed for your personal, professional and alone time for your, satisfaction growth, recreation and development.
(4) Your choice to exercise your right to be apart of or not be a part of planned or just-in-time blended family activities, without rancour or worry.
PROFESSIONAL
(Insha allah, by Allah's(swt) Leave And Mercies)
(0) Willing to train and Integrate trainable Spouse in current operations at the board and/or management level with the required skillsets to be functional and paid functionary in current operations with primary responsibility for country operations. "Director Country Operations "
(1) Provide wife with required upkeep plus assured salary according to your business operational functions for your own purpose as Allah(swt) provides insha Allah.
(2)Willing to train and Integrate trainable members of Spouse's family in current operations at the level of current education and/or trained and trainable competence in country or other operations as paid personnel and functionary for as long as they wish insha allah.
(3) Willing to accept "Silent Partner" options if business does not excite you and you would rather do other Islamically productive activities for and behalf of yourself or the operations in corporate responsibility.
GENERAL and RELATED
(Insha allah, by Allah's(swt) Leave And Mercies).
(0) Operations related Travel for mostly business and family visits on your time and blended familiy time.
(2) (a) Reasonably Instant Permanent Residency in Developed Asian country (b) Immediate citizenship options in World Sports, Culture leading Caribbean country.
OVERTURE
There are many choices here for everyone. I may not be lucky to see you, although you are the one.
If you are the one I may also take a longer time to find you.
Insha Allah, if you do see these words, please feel free to reach out first to get my attention so I may followup to ascertain whether you will have this Muslim and his options and possibilities. Aameen aameen al hamdulillahi rabbil aalameen.
Oh You Who Believe | " Truly, Allah has decreed some obligations, so do not neglect them, and He has forbidden certain matters, so do not perpetrate them, and He established some boundaries, so do not violate them. "Every action not based on our instruction is rejected " [Muslim]
(4:65) "But no, by your Lord, they can have no faith until they make you (Muhammad, (pbuh) ) judge in all disputes between them, and find in their souls no resistance against your decisions, but accept them with the fullest conviction."
3:13 So which of the favors of your Lord would you deny?