Helahel

LIVING THE DREAM

45 - Sunni

Essex, United Kingdom

Apr 24, 2021 23:48

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

REASON I DON'T HAVE A PROFILE PICTURE AND USUALLY JUST A PICTURE WITH A MESSAGE......

Well its quite simple i believe that what ALLAH has chosen for me i will have its just his choice as to when time is right for me to have it. Appearance changes with time even the most beautiful flower is only beautiful for a given time (not to say I'm not good looking i have confidence in that Allah has made me very hansom) hence i really want to know the inner person as thats what will grow old with me not to say looks are not important either but i hope you understand what i mean....... Also i usually put ref of Hadith or moltivational messages in my profile because a passer by might benefit from them in many ways and if some benefits from something it makes me really happy and in sha Allah Allah may reward me in the after life where its most definitely needed...........

WHY AM I ON THIS SITE IF I BELIEVE ALL THE ABOVE..........

The prophet muhammad PBUH quoted something in the way of Hadith on Reliance: Trust in Allah, but tie your camel. I guess its me tying my camel (please to those sensitive ladies im not calling you a camel lol)

LITTLE ABOUT MYSELF.....

Im a self made ....... (obviously i am nothing without the will of Allah but he has Alhamdullah given me more than i could imagine in many ways) I'm not seeking a immature girl who thinks her beauty is the best thing since sliced bread I've traveled the world and seen so much beauty that Allah has put in this world (i speak very narrowly of earth only ) beauty comes in many ways and physically beauty is nothing if you cannot hold a meaningful conversation ( if I wanted to talk to a brick wall I could do that without anyone) I need someone to stimulate my mind as I get bored easily yet be able to hold a conversation on many topics from deen to dunya. I know no body is perfect but in any successful relationship both sides need to give and take not all give give give or take take take......
I was born in an era where we could play with marbles and not worry about health and safety. We use to talk to communicate not text across the dining table. I know times have changed but still believe we don’t have to show the world what we have or don’t have across social media. People are very seldom happy for you and more importantly why make someone who doesn’t have what you do ie money looks etc etc feel bad?. Also everything we have is borrowed who knows when Allah chooses to take back what is not ours anyway. These are just some of my thoughts. Rome wasn’t built in a day so needless to say more may follow lol.

WHATS MY GOAL HERE

Actually it’s quite simple if this is a means for me to meet that amazing person then be it. I was looking at the statistics and there were something like 36000 guys and 12000 women on this site ( hey ladies your definatly in vogue that’s like 3 times as many men as women). But if not if I could help someone by my message or maybe even chatting and (if even for a moment make them smile or feel good or make their day special ) then it would mean a lot to me. Above all if I could help anyone with their deen (with what little knowledge I have) that would be amazing. Imagine if one could Revert someone and then marry them JACKPOT.......


WHAT IVE FOUND ON THIS SITE

There’s a lot of ladies on here that have some very harsh profile messages why? I’m a really easy going person and even I wouldn’t bother as it’s this and that etc. Hey have some trust and no need to give out ur phone no or F. acebook profile etc if guys genuine he will wait and in in the meantime talk via message if guys are after simply after ur chastity then block them simply.
Sometimes language may not be your strong point ie if your from foreign country English might not be your best way of expressing yourself then openly say so after all if you going to struggle now then what will happen later clarity is the best way forward.

And feel free to comment on my message as the best teacher in the world is one that’s ready to listen and learn

as some people may not start a conservation as they would be wondering what to say i will ask 3 questions feel free to answer them if you may....

1. What is the best advice anyone has ever given you?

2. What would you grab if (god forbid) your house was on fire?

3. When you were little, what did you want to be when you grow up? And do you still want it?


looking forward to some exciting replies...........

you may choose to me my no is ++44 (0 7 3 8 9 8 9 7 4 0 2)

Remember the most precious and expensive thing we posses is TIME so don’t waste it !!!!!!!!!!!

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