أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم ''I seek Allah's protection from Satan who is accursed'' بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم "In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful" السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته "May Peace and Mercy and Blessings of Allah be Upon You" My name is Ishaq Ibn Ibrahim Yerima, I live in New York. I'm a Student of Knowledge and my life was built under Aqeedah and Manhaj of Salaf-us-Saalih ... I'm a very respectful and humble person, I'm very friendly, open minded and straight forward in life, loving and caring person, because I believe that we all need each other, I really respect and value women, I love young children and I love being around them. My main reason for registering this site is seeking for Marriage. It is narrated by Anas that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "When a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion, so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half." The Prophet considered marriage for a Muslim as half of his religion because it shields him from promiscuity, adultery, fornication, homosexuality etc., which ultimately lead to many other evils like slander, quarreling, homicide, loss of property and disintegration of the family. According to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) the remaining half of the faith can be saved by Taqwa. And in another Hadith, The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Marriage is my Sunnah. Whosoever keeps away from it is not from me." So, Marriage is an act pleasing to Allah because it is in accordance with his commandments that husband and wife love each other and help each other to make efforts to continue the human race and rear and nurse their children to become true servants of Allah. So, I'm here for Marriage In-Sha'Allaah, but not for fun or play games, I don't play those games, I never play those games and I don't know how to play those games. So, If you're interested in me, please feel free to send me a message and I will get back to you as soon as possible In-Sha'Allah, but if I'm interested and even if I'm not interested i would still reply your Salaam In-Sha'Allah! Because saying Salaam to another Muslim is Sunnah and it is Fard to reply, so i can't ignore my Muslim Sister's Salaam just because i'm not interested in her, but I love her as my Sister in Islam. On the other hand: don't forget to perform Istikhara and seek guidance from Allah, because Allah knows what is the best for you and when it's best for you to have it.
Dear sister who is unmarried I recommend the following 10
tips for you:
1. Never fail to pray before saying yes to a man. Don’t be in
a hurry to get married. (Istikhara will do).
If you rush in, you may rush out with a lot of injuries!
2. Discover Your Purpose before marriage.
Go To School Or Learn a trade. If possible and worry not if
none.
Don’t wait for a man before you start living.
Add value to yourself and leave a good life.
3. Don’t run after a man because of his money, cars
connection,
position, talent, or family background.
Marry a man on the basis of his taqwa or righteousness not
leaving out his Love for u.
4. Develop a healthy eating habit.
You can reduce your fatness through exercise.
It takes discipline to do that.
5. Dress well: First Impression counts.
Don’t expose any of your private part for men to see
otherwise you
might only attract a player not a responsible man.
6. Don’t beg or force a man to marry you.
You are too precious to do that.
And don’t try to hook and keep a guy with s*x or unwanted
pregnancy.
Many ladies who do that end up in shame and regrets.
7. Your character is your marriage.
It makes a man want to spend the rest of his life with you.
So Work on your character.
Beauty is not everything.
If it is all you have, you’ll lose your place to someone more
beautiful and more matured than you.
8. Never fail to learn how to cook good food.
Men usually love a woman who feed them with good food
because
one of the easiest way to a man’s heart is through his
stomach.
9. Never fail to read books about marriage and
family before your Nikaah.
The marriage you don’t prepare for will confuse you when
you get
there.
Attend marriage seminar and premarital counseling before
marriage.
10. Never fail To rely on Allah before Marriage.
A Marriage Without Allah Is Bound To Experience Marital
Crisis.
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May Allah bless you with success, health, happiness, patience and strength. May all your dreams come true and may you live the life that you have always dreamed of. May Allah bless you with victory in this life and eternal life too. Aameen! Wassalam!
