I work offshore,as a production/chemical Engr. , i am working with Exxon Mobil Oil Company UK.....I have been in this job for about 6 yrs now and am quitting this time cos I want to get settle down again that is why am here searching,i have being widowed for 5 yrs now.I enjoyed being a married man but didn't have much time to enjoy my marriage before my wife and I got separated and i lost her in a car accident some years later when she went to visit her parent in Oxford ..