Aoa,
I’m an honest, loyal & caring in nature with a cool mind & a kind heart in general but these qualities will certainly upgrade for my spouse. I’m an introvert who listens actively. I’m a practicing Muslim with a lot of room for improvement (nobody’s perfect but there’s a very strong intent to improve). How great it sounds that your spouse is helping you improve your deen. This world is a deceit don’t fall for it let’s be each other’s strength through this testing of a lifetime.
Jazak Allah!