Now a days it is easier for men and women to date, hookup, text, all these haram things and it is extremely difficult for the pious ones to actually date the halal way (marriage). I am a humble honest young man who is only trying to follow the path of my beloved prophet, doing anything I can to become more like him and to please Allah but society is pushing me away from this.
It is said a good spouse is one of the most beautiful gifts according to the Prophet PBUH and marriage is something heavily suggested by Allah.
I can not promise you many of the things society puts importance on (although I will try my best) but just know I strive to be like the prophet and will do anything I can to keep whomever Allah chooses for me happy
Only way I see anyone being my spouse is if they are pious and follow the deen and if they have the mindset of having no worries/stress in life because like me and many muslims they are mature in knowing that whatever Allah is doing is good for me, and that he knows best and I should not question or doubt him.
I feel like this is more important to me than any of societies factors or limits that we put on people trying to get married.
I could talk about my job and education but who wants to know about a boring coding job?
You would've ended up thinking I'm boring... in actuality my sense of humor is the heart and soul of my mind, but more on that if we talk iA.
Sorry for the ESSAY, I did want to be a professor when I was young but I guess this shows my love for reading 🤔