A LITTLE INTRODUCTION ABOUT MYSELF AND MY FAMILY
I am 26 years old, born and raised in Pakistan. I finished my Bachelors in Psychology in June 2018.
I'm also working on some personal projects on the side.
I'm very happy with what I am doing and deeply thankful for my life.
My parents are divorced. We are three siblings in total. I am the youngest one. My mother lives with my brother and his wife in Australia and my sister and I are living with my father in Karachi, Pakistan. Despite the fact that my parents are divorced, we love and respect both of them Alhamdulillah.
MY PERSONALITY AND LIFESTYLE
So I'm an ambivert basically. I love to interact to people of different cultures.
Put me in a group of people I've never met, come back in minutes and everybody is my friend (exaggerating 😂).
I'm very carefree, but, hopefully, not careless!
I enjoy discussions, especially intellectual ones.
I LOVE outdoors and outdoor activities, especially camping, hiking and cycling.
MY VIEWS ON RELATIONSHIPS
I'm here for one thing that is MARRIAGE
Previously, I have refrained from engaging in romantic relationships with anyone that I wasn't sure that I would have long-term goals with, and I'm yet to find that one person.
Believe me, it wasn't easy .. neither to refrain nor to find the one, but I rely on patience.
The reason why I refrained from engaging in any romantic relationship is for multiple religious, ethical, and social reasons that boil down to three things:
• First, I believe that messing around is simply Haram and wrong. I can argue for this from Islamic, ethical, social perspective.
• Second, I'd hate to cheat on my future soulmate and husband . I believe that I can’t displease my beloved Creator, who has blessed me with so much and who is my final abode and also because I am an amanah of my future husband.I know for a fact that I will love him so much. When I meet him , I want to honestly tell him you are the first and you are the last.
• Third, I think it's inherently dishonest to have a relationship with a Man I love if I know I'm not committed to a long term relationship. I would feel bad hurting his feelings, especially that I love him.
Having said that, I'm very keen to serious relationships.
I’M REALLY GOOD AT
Dealing with people
Dealing with children (specifically)
FOUR THINGS I COULD NEVER DO WITHOUT
1 - Allah's guidance, its essential to my understanding of the purpose of life and the secret of the universe. It's the light that guides me.
2 - My family and friends's support, they have always been there for me, I'm very glad and thankful to them, I can expatiate here.
3 - My smile, it's an antidote, both for me and for those who are around me.
4- My husband ! .. I'm still missing this 😢
I SPEND A LOT OF TIME THINKING ABOUT
Changing the world to the better, or simply adding something to it.
I believe I have a great chance to do something significant in this world. I would love to share this journey with someone.
I also think a lot about what my other half is currently doing? and why we aren't together already?
I believe communication is the key to know each other. We can talk within the boundaries of Islam insha’Allah. You can ask me whatever you want and I will be honest in my answers.