Selamun Aleykum, i am Ahmet and i live in Turkey. I am simply a mind created by Quran and i try to be a good Muslim. I am interested in religion philosophy, science and technology. Like biking, long walks, shi-fi movies/series and brain storming..
I love my job and never get tired of searching, developing and creating things for people.. Solving their problem is the only thing that drives me and as an Engineer serving the army of ISLAM with my designs (Turkish army) is my Cihad.
I am here for MARRIAGE only. I am not looking for a girlfriend, not a friend or someone i can have fun with.I am looking for my wife only.
I don't drink, i don't smoke and i do not fool around. I have a job and i earn enough to take care of myself and i will be working hard to take care of my family too. I am not rich; i don't have my car, i don't have my house (i rent) i earn what i need and i don’t waste. I am working for maintaining my life with minimum requirements. For short, i am a minimalist. I care quality more than quantity.
I have been busy with my own plans and projects for quite time and now i realise that something big is missing whatever i try. it is the woman who is gonna be my only and forever love.
I have never been in love or had any girlfriend intentionally because of the respect of my future wife.
I kept my heart and my body clean for her as a gift. I do not believe in divorce. I do believe there is only one woman for every man and love is only once.
So i am looking for same mentality. I am looking for a wife who never had any physical relation with a man, Who is VİRGİN, chaste, humble and the most important with a warm smile.
I am Looking for my FIRST LOVE, my FIRST KISS.
After reading this profile, if you ever reply any other profile who is trying to reach you, it means you are not interested in me so you have skipped to the next person. I will immediately stop chatting with you. I am quite mature person and i respect other people and their time so i made myself so clear here. Please, this is very important to me. If you can't do this, don't waste your time.
if you think it is okay to chat with many men who are interested in you for marriage, Then BE SURE WE ARE NOT COMPATIBLE.
I just don't like to talk with many women and i don't see any point of talking with a person who doesn't share same values when it comes to love/marriage/getting to know someone. That's the best way to protect my own chastity. Sorry if this sounds rude to you.
SELF summary;
I was kinda Loving Someone i Haven't Met.
There is a difference between being lonely and not having too many friends. The fact is, i have a different perspective about things in life, my views are not like most others and are often not that easily accepted by many, thus i do not consider that i have a lot of friends. Nevertheless i do not feel lonely because i m always busy (i may not appear busy because i do not feel a need to look busy), i m busy thinking, because i love thinking.
My view of MARRIAGE;
A man should lead by example. When a man shows love and respect for his wife...when he is responsible and caring...when he doesn't lead with tyranny, ..then, the wife will have no issues in naturally viewing him as head of household. It's not as hard as people make it out to be, really. But, men who are not respectful, loving, caring or responsible...if those types of men expect their wives to hold them as leaders in the home, it might be an uphill climb for that man. Would such a man lead a company? Lead a country in battle? Would you trust someone to lead you, who was thoughtless, and didn't care about your needs or feelings? Likewise for husbandship. Men shouldn't expect to be given a leadership role, just because they are biologically men. It takes work, patience, love and the sacrificing of self, for a man to be a true leader in his home.
