Helahel

وجعل بينكم مودة ورحمة

42 - Sunni

Algeria, Algeria

Jul 3, 2019 11:22

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرحمن الرَّحيِم

In the Name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful

{وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ}
سورة الروم الآية 21

"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought"
Surah Ar-Rum [30:21]

السَّلامُ عَلَيْكُم ورَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ

Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatu Allahi Wa Barakatuh

P.S Before you read my profile i want to tell you something: You don't have to read my profile, you really don't, and i wouldn't feel offended if you don't

Maybe reading my profile would help you to know me a little bit or maybe not!

I believe the best way to know someone really is simply by talking to this person because people tend to say just nice things about themselves in their profiles.

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Before creating this profile, i asked myself two questions:

The first one was: Is it the right way to find a partner?

I'm not so sure about all these matrimonial sites, there are two main problems with these sites:

The first problem is there is too many fake profiles, some people with disease in their hearts creating fake profiles to scam people or make fun of them, thinking they are too smart, or finding it funny, and i don't see anything smart or funny about it, i don't understand why someone would spend that much time and energy in creating a fake profile online to fool people? but as i said, those people have disease in their hearts.

If i can say something to those people (Although i don't think they would listen to me, but my duty as muslim is giving nassiha and not force others to take it
"So remind, [O Muhammad]; you are only a reminder.You are not over them a controller.However, he who turns away and disbelieves -Then Allah will punish him with the greatest punishment.Indeed, to Us is their return.Then indeed, upon Us is their account."

So my word for those people (if they are muslims, because some of them are not muslims and they use these muslim matrimonial sites to make fun of muslims, so you need to be careful with who you are talking to)

What you are doing is lying and lying is one of the characteristics of the hypocrites

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Whoever has the following four (characteristics) will be a pure hypocrite and whoever has one of the following four characteristics will have one characteristic of hypocrisy unless and until he gives it up.

1. Whenever he is entrusted, he betrays.

2. Whenever he speaks, he tells a lie.

3. Whenever he makes a covenant, he proves treacherous.

4. Whenever he quarrels, he behaves in a very imprudent, evil and insulting manner."



And you should know that hypocrites are worse than the unbelievers and Allah will put the hypocrites in the lowest level of hell

“Verily, the hypocrites will be in the lowest depth (grade) of the Fire; no helper will you find for them (al-Nisaa’ 4:145)

And you should also know that a muslim can never be a liar

Safwan ibn sulaim reported: It was said to the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, “Can the believer be a coward?” The Prophet said yes. It was said, “Can the believer be a miser?” The Prophet said yes. It was said, “Can the believer be a liar?” The Prophet said no"

You should also know that lying is a very serious thing, it's a sin that open a door for a lot of sins

The Prophet peace be upon him said “I enjoin you to be truthful, for truthfulness leads to righteousness and righteousness leads to Paradise. A man may continue to tell the truth and endeavour to be truthful until he is recorded with Allah as a speaker of truth. And beware of lying, for lying leads to wickedness and wickedness leads to Hell. A man may continue to tell lies and endeavour to tell lies, until he is recorded with Allah as a liar”



The second problem with these matrimonial sites is people are not so serious about getting married, it doesn't necessary mean they have bad attentions or playing games, but they are just not so sure about what they are looking for and if they are ready for getting married or not, and if they really believe they can find a decent person online .

And that leads me to the second question i asked myself before creating this profile and it was: is it possible to find a decent person online?

And the answer was: Allah knows best.

We don't know where or when or how we gonna meet our partners, in street, in restaurant, in weeding, in mosque, online, it could be anywhere, really anywhere and maybe in the most unexpected places and in the most unexpected ways and in the most unexpected time and maybe with the most unexpected person.

Sometimes we have this idea or image in our heads about our 'ideal" partners but we could meet a very different person than the one we have in our heads and it works!

The only thing we can do is trying to do our best to make sure that we make the right choice and ask Allah for his help and blessings.



And after saying all this, it's time to write something about myself right?

It's never easy for a person to talk about him/herself so maybe the easiest way is just to write random "facts" about yourself!
Writing the first things that come to your mind
So that's exactly what i'm gonna do, so excuse me if my profile looks a bit messy

So here some random "facts" about me:

-I don't follow a specific madheb, i take from every madheb what i think is the most closet thing to haq (truth)
I'm talking here about the four main madaheeb "maliki, shafii, hanbali, hanafi" and nothing else.

-It's nice to have some things in common but i don't believe it's necessary to have some things in common to have a successful relationship,it's ok to be different, actually it can be really interesting

- I believe that a person can still have his/her own space even when they are in couple, you don't have to do everything together, you can do the things you like and love alone or with your friends, or just spending a moments of quiet and silence alone.

Being in couple doesn't mean cancelling your personality, "Us" should never cancel "I"

-I love kids so i don't have any problem if my potential partner has kids, but i do have a problem with misbehaving because i've seen how some kids misbehave in public and how that can be really so embarrassing to their parents and how annoying it can be for others.

-If you are looking for someone to lead you to jannah or strengthen your iman (faith) sorry but i can't be this person and i don't think anybody can, because i believe only you and your actions can lead you to jannah, of course with the will of Allah.

My profile may not look like the most interesting profile you gonna find here, but i believe that you can't know the person just by reading their profile, you need to talk to this person "within limits of course"


May Allah bless you all with good azwaj and zawjat.

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

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