I'm really not looking, I'm waiting for someone to fall into my presence. Someone who can take charge and have their own thoughts and wishes, and of utmost importance, able to discuss opinions and fantasies without any judgement passed. Communication is key here! Looking thru the ads I see so many pretty ladies I wonder if they are real or not? I'm curious to at least have an intellectual conversation with someone and experience their views on any topic they so choose! And on a side note, I was born and raised in California, to some it seems important and to others just more info!