I think I have a pretty good handle on describing myself. This has been an interesting experience and I hope to end my membership soon. I am not a player or interested in checking out the dating scene. I'm beyond that and my ideas involve either a lovely dinner at a favourite place or dinner at home that I prepare. I want to meet a fun loving, attractive, age appropriate and passionate man to start as a friend, who has some of the interests that I have but also some different ones so we can learn from each other and grow together. There is a benefit to meeting an older gentleman who knows how to treat woman