Helahel

NASIR

33 - Sunni

Dundee, United Kingdom

Nov 1, 2023 13:02

Assalamualaikom wr wb hope you all are doing well inshallah.
Please marry someone who is at your level of eeman and halal- haram ratio. Don't marry a project thinking I will change him or her. You are looking for a disaster to happen.

And even when you marry someone with similar eeman look at your collective Islamic goals - are you satisfied with who you are now or do you both want to grow in Islam.

Is he gonna earn less and pursue his Islamic degree while making ends meet?
Is she gonna memorize Quran and make food that is acceptable instead of laying out gourmet food everyday?

And always talk about growth, flexibility and growing together in deen.

Never marry a person who says "I am like this and I am not going to change - accept me the way I am" - that is a scary mindset.

Thank you.