The most important thing for one to know is I’m very fun loving and a flower child, but I’m dead serious about the deen. I’m not perfect by a long shot, nor do I expect for anyone else to be, but trying is very important to me and would have the expectation that whoever I marry would try his authentic best in terms of the deen too. After religiosity the next most important thing to me is emotional intelligence, and would hope that my husband would have that too. May Allaah make finding our spouses easy, aameen!