35 - Shia

Virginia, United States

Sep 30, 2023 23:25


"Everybody that you are attracted to, you ain't
compatible with "...read this again.

1 -About me:
I am a God Conscious and God Fearing Woman
By Allah(SWT)...Mercy.

Allahuma calli Ala Muhammadin Wa Ali Muhammad Wa Arjil Faraj..๐ŸŒน

I am Shia Muslima Lady - to - the -Core - of - my - Soul....Salawat...

I am a sapiophile.person..!!!
Imam Ali(as) said:

For everything that you own there is Zakat, and Zakat of your body is fasting. The Jihad of a woman is to afford pleasant company to her husband.

"Ref: Peak of Eloquence, Nahjul Balagha Saying...135.."

I am modern, the "girl next door" mixed with" the one you take home to meet mama. "and I'm ready to meet the good man Allah (SWT) made for me. I'm a great girl who knows her worth.

I value :
A- Peity...religion.
B- Family.
C- Friendship.
D- Loyalty.
E- integrity...
F- honesty...

Looking for my soulmate, my Hdubby Husband to Complete my Deen.!!! Deen is the most important Factor..!

My Matrimonial Status: Divorced
My Currently location: Virginia, ๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

Citizenship: other.
Open to relocating: Yes
Height 5"7 /
Weight: 120 to 130pLbs.
Sometimes lower !!!
Into fitness.

Living by my self with my young Son Who is Homeschool....

In the Future, Living inlaw: Would prefer not to.

Languages: English, French. Good in Arabic but Improving every day...learning Farsi...

Type of marriage I'm looking for:
Full time, Nikkah and registry with the law.

Hijaab: Yes I wear Full Hijab. I love Tasbi Fatima Al Zahraa (as)...& Salawat...

Marriage Time frame : As soon as i find the right one.

Ethinicity:ย  I'm BROWN/Black Girl.. Creation Of Allah(swt) in case some brothers believe that they Create their own Skin..Just Saying..
Parents: Passed Away.

Culture: Islam. Ahlul'bayt (as)

Religiosity: Pious Shia Muslim Lady..
Per preference..Never did and will never get involve in Muta(Temporary Marriage)
Just doesn't suit me..I ain't emotionally needy, however I am an emotional being by nature,
so I don't open to my energy that which will hold me too vulnerable.!

My Personality : Feminine, Acsetic. Ambitious, hard working, Calm, sweet&sawer, Patient, pious, respectful perseverant, inquisitive, optimistic, equally extroverted &introverted, Value authority.

Education background:
i am educated. self employed, work from home!

I enjoy reading, staying physically fit and I'm also a great cook and a baker!
Learning more and deeply about Islam. About the Ahlul'bayt(as) are my Hobby..!
I love nature, sea side..!
I like sewing, learning languages, being goofy, many more..

I use social media for business purposes..!!!

On my free time, I love keep in touch with relatives, then I watch TV very little(News, Persian Movies), i also regularly watch/listen islamic lectures online from The Scholar Of the Shia School of Thought (Jafary School)..

I don't listen to Profane and haram music.. the Sound of the the Quran, Duas and Munajat are My Music..

According for What You Provide,
Here are Some of what I can offer you: Prayers, a nurturing being, loyalty, honesty, Home Cooked meals, intellectual conversation, Islamic conversation, Household management(peace, a tidy, Lovely&cozy home), empathy, Compassion, understanding, respect, appreciation, true love, sweetness, warmness, kindness, romance, tranquility!..

Some Good sense of humor.!

Ain't interested in: Second/multiple wife type of household, closed minded man,ย  i am not here to waste my time or anyone else's,ย 
I'm looking for a husband not a friend...but My Best Friend and Confident.

Allah(SWT) has bless me to be a genuine human being. Alhamdulillah.

2-..about him..the Future Hubby
i am not asking for much.

I just want a high value Muslim man.!
Who is God Conscious and God Fearing .!

Here is the thing:

A Mutual true Connection..a Clean affection .. Thoughtful attention... Mutual understanding..decency,..Mutual Respect are a must to build a strong long lasting happy marriage and relationship... since these are simply crucial human need to exist..and live happily...

has the Holy Quran says:

"Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guardedโ€ฆ"(Surah 4, Verse 34)

It must be remembered that Islamically, a leader is one who serves, manages, provides and nourishes.

A leader must also have humbleness and humility and deal with all of those under his care and protection with justice and equality.

A husband exercises the right kind of leadership by listening to and consulting with his wife.
Also, a husband is bound to follow the rules of the Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet (S) and the Ahlul'bayt (as).

So differences in opinion should be referred back to these sources (and of course the
Religious Scholars in our local community), instead of becoming a source of tension and problems.

Not only is it the duty of the head of the house to make sure that the material needs of the family and order are kept, but it is also his duty to protect himself and his family from the fire of hell:

"O' you who have true faith! Save yourselves and your families from the fire which is fueled by
people and stones and is guarded by stern angels who do not disobey Allah's (SwT) commands and do whatever they are ordered to do." (Surah 66, Verse 6)!

Therefore, the head of the house must make sure that he has the proper Islamic knowledge to keep himself away from the hell and more importantly, guide his wife and children to the straight path and
keep them on this road.!

Allahuma calli Ala Muhammadin Wa Ali Muhammad Wa Arjil Faraj..

Dear Future Husband.
Be ready, because time is an asset that doesn't belong to Creatures but the Creator.!

Be responsible enough to be abide to the teaching of Imam Ali Ibn Abu Talib (as) Mawla... Which are the Teaching Of Rassulilllah (Saaaws) & the 11 remaining of imams of Alhlul'bayt(as).

If not and you are not willing to learn to enhance your level of knowledge and grow in piety accordingly to the Holy Household teaching. No disrespect..kindly Keep Your Peace...

Dear future Husband;
I want you to be.

Be real.
Be a Communicator.
Be honest.
Be Mature.
Be gentle.
Be human.
Be kind.
Be Genuine.
Be Physically attractive.
Be Phisycally fit.
Be intellectually stimulating.( I'm a sapiophile)
Be confident but not Arrogant
Be Caring but not Smothering.
Be hopelessly Romantic.
Be hopefully rich or be at least Financially comfortable.
Be a protector & a maintainer as Allah(SWT) ordained in the Holy Quran..! And understand the meaning of these words.!
Be understanding.
Be Generous.
This Life is ephemeral. Be mindful..!

What I'm looking for: Someone who Value Religion, who at least prays Fadjr, Zuhur, Asr, Maghrib and Isha Namaz..ย  who fast Ramadan.. who followed Allah(swt) rules and laws According to the teachings of Rassoulillah Muhammad (Saawas) transmetted to us By The Ahlul'bayt (as) the 1st of them. My Mawla.. Imam Aly Ibn Abu Taled (as). And who is Waiting for Our Savior(AJFS)...to build a team with, who understands that marriage is for life and is willing to put the work in...to encourage me as I will encourage them (for this life, and the hereafter). Someone who is mature and responsible enough to take on the role as the head of the house. Not some one who looking into 50/50 % sharing the household expenses..and still want to be the head of that same HOUSEHOLD, while Allah(swt) made men financiallyย  responsible at 100%...
I am Not looking also into someone who is looking to be taking care of financially by women.!

I want a:

A kind.
A Spiritual.
A God Fearing.
A Intellectual.
A Communicator
A Generous.
A responsible.
A Deeply sweet man.
As a husband...as My lover.. As My Best friend... As My confident...!

I want..
Someone who I can have fun with, build a tone of memory with,ย  build a beautiful Family who is open to trying new things ( within the boundaries of islam According to the teachings of Ahlul'bayt (as) and knows that being a dictator isn't the way the Prophet or the Imams cared for their HOUSEHOLD.

Be real.
Be a Communicator
Be human.
Be kind.
Be Genuine.
Be understanding.
This Life is ephemeral. Be mindful..!

I just want a ready to Wed...

A kind.
A Spiritual.
A Communicator.
A God Fearing.
A Intellectual.
A Deeply sweet man.
As a husband.๐Ÿ‘Œ๐ŸŒน...!

I'd also like to have an emotional bond, and a mental connection with the man who will be my Spouse/Partner in this journey called life.
If there is anything in my profile, thats aroused your curiosity...use the message section...the conversation may evolve further more..never know..!

This above are my expectations!

To see my face, live video call only are accepted.!

That's right..!
I appreciate you for reading to the end.
May Allah(SWT) Bless you..and find you who you are ooking for. Ameen๐Ÿฅฅ๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ“ฟ๐Ÿ“ฟ๐Ÿ•‹



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