I like to have Bubble Bath, Candles, Romantic Scents & Flowers, Massage-Oils, Soft Body Scents, wearing Baby Dolls, Exploring one another & Passionate Love making, being held and feeling safe, dinners in or out, exploring our minds-intellectual stimulating conversations, Praying together, visiting the Beach, Soft Music (Jazz, Gospel, RB, some Rap), I love Mood Music-Old School Love Ballard's too, my favorites are Mary J Blidge, India Arie Herbie Hanc**k 2008 album of the year, latest song for 2009 and lots of old school music and movies