Here is a little advice for you although you did not ask. Just from me, and I mean well by it. There are 4 things I advice you to match in a man. First is his manners or ikhlaq. He should not be of the cursing type, keeps his promises, test him in his anger coz if you get a guy who is very religious but no manner, gets angry often and easily, then there is more chance of divorce. So test him in his manners. Second, share you goals. Know his goals... They should match... Like having kids, where you will live, similar interests, and if these are way apart, like you wanting an Islamic way and he a liberal way... So there will be issues later on... So match and have similar goals will have a good marriage. Third, See what his negatives are... Accept the whole person. Every one has good with the bad. Make sure his negatives are not something that bug you a lot and similarly share you negative so he accepts you fully. And last of 4th is have some physical attraction to the other... Hope this helps you on your search... As the prophet PBUH said.. Addennu nasiha . Part of our islam is to give good advise... Jazakillah for reading... Assalamualikum WrWb. Aadil
I'm Looking For
OK so I have been getting a lot of interest from you ladies and I appreciate all the love, but I do not want time wasted so kindly read below as to see who should not be writing or showing interest as it will lead to no where. Jazakillah 1. Someone who is a born Muslimah and her wali does not know that she is here online or will not accept someone from online website... Kindly do not waste my time and yours falling in love and then having your dad hate me. So please only those whose wali will accept and there is no marriage without a wali. 2. Scanner specially from Ghana, I will not send money to support your lifestyle. I have done that once... Kindly send an application to the world bank...and I am not one of those. 3. Some immature or younger students who plan to just chit chat and learn another language... I am not into all that. Only write to me if you want an Islamic practicing lifestyle. I am not a rich guy, but Alhumdulillah I can provide a decent loving living ,full of love, honor, respect and Islam to one lady . I would also like someone who want to have kids and raise Muslims children in the right way. If this is you, I would like to hear. And yes I prefer those new in islam or those who are serious in islam. A lot you women are here looking for a life of comfort in this dunya, and i see very few of you, choosing this dunya to live and prepare for the forever life of Jananh. Which one are you? Assalamualikum WrWb
