Salam. I hope everything went well with you
I want to ask some questions before that I already ask my friends, but that's not enough for me. So please share with me if you have more knowledge about that
1. How someone fall in love with each other ? When I see my friends before they already married her husband, they get married without any relationship just know each other and get married, they said that love come suddenly after marriage? So how can someone fall in love with someone who are strangers to her.
2. How to know if our partners is serious about marriage? How to know that he's really a honest and kind person with good attitude and what he said is true ? As we all know, that we can't ask her friends or parents about his/her habit, behaviour, attitude, as for me I just believe that we are all muslim, and we talk truth and Allah know everything in our heart, is that enough to know someone or we can consider from other side ?
3. I see so many people thinks that cheating and frees*x is something ordinary not zina, and don't care about the consequence. I want to ask if love after marriage can fade and decrease, but I believe that if someone love each other because of Allah, their love Will get stronger, but so many cases about cheat or something make me quite doubt, because they are muslim, and they do zina with open eyes, so is Islam just for identity for them and not apply in their daily life ?
4. Tell me about how much important your partners appearance to you ? Truth to be told, many people said that they don't care about your appearance just your Deen, but when they see you, they'll give up, because you are not good looking, we can't deny that we like to see something good (beauty), and our partners appearance will continue to accompany us until we die, but how much important that appearance when we are going to decide to get married ?
Thank you for reading, and sorry to take your time. May Allah bless you and make everything easier for you