|
|
Mostly i see that when i msg to a girl she simply reads msg and becomes quiet. I just want reply either it is YES or NO.
|
May 10, 2022 09:19 I have not written a single message here to any girl, it seems to me that a woman who wants to get married should be more active)) |
|
May 10, 2022 09:52 Yes. Every one is active.. everyone sees our msg but becomes non serious in case of reply |
|
|
May 10, 2022 10:49 the majority of women on this site are women without affairs who just spend time here and have fun with men , |
|
|
May 10, 2022 16:09
They are not even having fun. |
|
|
May 10, 2022 16:14 this is an inferiority complex, many women are experiencing it,)) and some are waiting for messages from Norwegian engineers, American doctors, or German businessmen, but not from poor Pakistani or Azerbaijani guys |
|
|
May 10, 2022 16:49 Lol.. you said damn true |
|
May 10, 2022 17:01
Salam alikum |
|
May 10, 2022 17:16 I have not sent a message to anyone for a long time There are a lot of fake people on the site Do not care too much |
|
|
May 10, 2022 17:20
They really threatened you! I also saw on the site that an African person wanted to kill someone Just to ask a question |
|
|
May 10, 2022 18:16
Threating, abusing or harassment is condemnable and i completely condemn it. |
|
May 10, 2022 19:28
Here is the answer. |
|
May 10, 2022 19:46 Yeah, only Casper on site! |
|
|
May 10, 2022 19:51
You agreed with Abu maryam who is has a really poison picture of Muslim women and he seems to be an abusive and sad person who claimed women are just here for "Fun" and that we only want money. |
|
|
May 10, 2022 19:59 Yes, you're one of those ghosts that live everywhere a good ghost.π |
|
|
May 10, 2022 20:14
Lady A |
|
|
May 10, 2022 20:29
Ok, I know what you mean |
|
|
May 10, 2022 21:18
LoL.. you re right ... We can just pray for every such person who cannot respect a woman. who already knows that his mother is/was also a woman. |
|
May 10, 2022 21:34
Assalamualiakum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatuh, |
|
|
May 10, 2022 22:45
|
|
|
May 10, 2022 23:18
If you focus a bit here you will see 99% of UK female profiles are fake. And this goes to other western profiles. This website is the most scam website believe me. They sell all the information to foreigner intelligence agencies under the word "sharing to the third parties". So if you are afried, don't talk politics. I am not afried from them, I pee on them. |
|
|
May 11, 2022 07:20 @ Lady A ,Am I cruel??))) what an interesting analysis of my personality))) if you count the deceived women of this site who were deceived by American doctors, Norwegian engineers and German businessmen and left these wives without panties, taking the last money, compared to these men, I'm just a superhero)) |
|
May 11, 2022 17:46
I am agree with A Lady, if a women doesnt reply your messages, it's mean she is not respect with you, for me it's just waste my time. |
|
|
May 11, 2022 17:49 But i always reply salam message as a muslimah then will keep silent if i am not interested then. |
|
May 12, 2022 03:48
I have been here for more than 1 year but less than 2 years, never met a real man and seriously looking for a wife. |
|
|
May 12, 2022 04:01
To make it easier for all serious candidates, I convey the data that we need to convey in the discussion forum are: |
|
|
May 12, 2022 04:05 One more, we can add our choice of Islam Sunni, Siite, Shia, other and for our future partner |
|
|
May 12, 2022 04:09 And for pictures no need to add on in the profile, we must respect that some people won't to share their pics in public. After a common communication and feel safe, we can ask for the pics later. |
|
May 12, 2022 06:17
In My own opinion I think. Respect is mutual and should be reciprocated. The goal here is to find a spouse whose Attitude and persona is string enough to manage a home and be a model to your kids and the society. |
|
|
May 12, 2022 06:27 brothers, when will you understand this??? if a mature woman is still not married and is looking for a man on a dating site, this is a sign of a female problem, it means these women have problems, my life experience has repeatedly proved to me that if a mature woman is still not married, then she has problems either with her health or with her head, |
|
|
May 12, 2022 07:06 Abu Mayam, not every women have problems just because they are not yet married. Most or Some women because they have a good career, smart and so independent, and that is not negative, so don't judge the people by our mind, no one know about their own fate. Most of them saw many failure married couples around them that make them afraid to end their happy single life. So, there are so many reason that we can't judge by our opinion. Be respect to every one to live their own choice is more polite than just to say something what we don't know exactly. It call suudzoon, and you will pay it with your rewards for them in the akhira, and if you have no more rewards to pay, you have to take their sins, so terrible, naudzubillah. Better we pray for them, and try to do something to help them to fulfill their dreams, because every one have their own dream, that is a happy life with their lovely spouse. |
|
|
May 12, 2022 07:19
And one thing you should know, for a success woman maybe they can't find their mate around them because they are a little bit difficult to approach, some people around them is already married, or too young, not mature, etc, and then they try online dating hope to find a true love, because her real identity doesn't know by people far from them, they can communicate without burden and maybe they feel comfortable and can lead them to married, insha Allah. |
|
|
May 12, 2022 07:31 @Khadica, sorry, your words and arguments are not based on religion, not on the Sharia of Allah,,did the prophet's wives build a career?? did the women of the Sahaba times live looking at society ?? |
|
|
May 12, 2022 07:33 dear Khadija, if you still haven't realized that if a mature woman is not married , this is a serious problem for a Muslim woman , then you yourself have a problem |
|
|
May 12, 2022 08:28
@ya~yahya |
|
|
May 12, 2022 09:17 @ Abu Maryam, what we're talking about is a condition that already happens to women who are past their age due to careers or other reasons, we can't go back in time. Maybe they are not very religious, don't know much about sharia rules. There are so many people who are not good at religion (in the past) that's why they can make wrong decisions (in the past). What we have to do is help them when they want to taubah. Honestly, I myself just found out that marriage is part of the deen, really, I only found out about it in the last 1 year, in my environment no one has told me about this, and I know from the lectures I've watched on youtube since youtube can become where we seek religious knowledge by watching to Islamic lectures, in the past did not know about it. It was a big mistake, but it happened. So that's why we have to fix it, and when they intend to take the right path, want to getting married, they try to find a way, either through their surroundings, or through online dating, because the facilities are there. If you think badly of every old woman who is looking for a mate online, then why was an online website established, do online dating websites need to be sorted so that only young women follow, not for old women because they are considered to have problems with their head? That's very discrimination. I'm really curious whether we deserve to think of ourselves as better than others so that we dare to think that other people have problems in their heads? Yet we never know how hard they try. I'm not here to defend them because I feel like a group with them, but I have several female friends that I know from this website, and we often discuss so that I know their background on why looking for a match online. And some female friends that I know here, they are respectable, smart, highly educated, and religiously obedient women. They are not stupid women, without education, without religious knowledge, even though they may not be perfect because no one is perfect in their religion, all servants of Allah are still in the stage of continuing to learn and continue to seek knowledge so that they can become better people. I just don't want them to be good women but you think of them as women with problems in their heads. Do you believe you are more perfect than other people? Does our religion teach us to be arrogant and have the right to judge others without any basis? So please understand this. |
|
|
May 12, 2022 09:36
What is important and we have to do is how to help them, don't be fooled by scammers, don't be sad or discouraged because they feel they can't compete with young women. Actually the young women don't really need the help of online dating sites, because they are young and have more opportunities around them. |
|
|
May 12, 2022 10:44 @Khadica ,, I completely agree with you, if you realized that you once lived incorrectly and now live according to Islam, it really deserves respect and praise, better late than never, |
|
|
May 12, 2022 14:24 @Abu Maryam, thank you brother, pray and bless us so our sisters here can complete their half deen, that's what we should do. Once again thank you for our discussion. May Allah bless you to find your mate soon, insha Allah.. |
|
|
May 12, 2022 19:42
When did the men in this Ummah become such cry babies? I don't respond to a ton of messages, who cares what you want. Welcome to the real world, it doesn't revolve around you, a Muslim sister who doesn't respond to you is obviously not interested in you. This happened to you, me, and likely 99.95% of all men who ever lived on this planet. |
|
|
May 12, 2022 21:36
@Lady A, I understand that many men are abusive but not all men are the same. Women are here to seek for potential husbands on this Platform and these husbands are suppose to make a move on them via messages here. Atleast for starters we should have a fine Intro done and a good conversation starts from there, after the acquaintance is established the rest will slide in naturally. After the energy of attempting to message in details not even a single message is written to kindly refuse in not more than one or two lines. Not just ignore despite the effort of attempting like one is just a sac of Potatoe. For me I think that is immaturity and lack of good ethics. Atleast appreciate his effrontery for trying and for taking his time to select you out of the very many. |
|
May 12, 2022 22:52
Again .. I donβt want to offend anyone here. But women also want to see men with pics here. Most of you donβt have your pics here and some of us prefer someone closer to us location wise. |
|
|
May 12, 2022 23:53
@ya~yahya |
|
|
May 13, 2022 01:56 Ya -Yahya is just stating his opinion. Your each entitled to your ways. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 02:05 They are saying that people who don't reply, even with a smile or saying Hi at least, are rude. They are entitled to what they think, and so are people who think not replying are entitled to what they think. No one is arguing against the other, your just stating your opinions. It's one way of getting to know who your interested in, as there is no in person communication on here obviously. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 02:09 It's polite and nice to acknowledge people when they say hello as you come across them in life. It's the better way to be, if one can manage to do that in their daily interactions with others. If you can't, then you may have to be prepared for the ensuing attitudes given back to you in return. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 02:11 You get what you put out. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 06:23
Thank you so much Miss China! You I commend your personality alot and your sense of maturity and justice. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 07:05
@China, you're right, most people would think that people who don't reply, even with a smile or at least say Hi, are rude. Therefore inshaAllah I will always reply, even to apologize that we just can be friend, etc and make a prayer may Allah bless him to find a better girl/woman. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 08:15
I was thinking about it today. If you pass by someone, and they agknowledge you in any way, most the time a person would respond back. And that has a short time phrame. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 08:22 If someone keeps pestering you many times, just block them. It's the same as having someone pester you in real life..you would find an escape route and stay away from them. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 08:40
Wow |
|
|
May 13, 2022 08:42
@china |
|
|
May 13, 2022 08:48 I meant both men and women. I'm not sure how you went from saying hello to someone and replying, to rape. That's not what anyone is talking about here. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 08:53 Peace...be upon you. |
|
May 13, 2022 11:17
@Leena |
|
|
May 13, 2022 13:42
I agree with China's point of view, when some say hello to you, you have to say hello back, no need to ignore that person, this is rude and uncivilized mentality, kind already abused mentality. And why people behave like superior to others. If you have had Islamic teaching, you have to reply back,simple. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 18:22
@ Lady A. It is quite clear that you are toxic one here who despite other women acknowledging the fact raised and agree to re- address certain mistakes commonly made by some folks here, you are still adamant because you all care about it to be right and to be acknowledged as rational. I think you are immature to start with despite your Age, who knows maybe that's why you haven't gotten to find a husband yet. You should really look into yourself because you are full pride and more ego driven from what you seem out here. You demeanor and response says it all. I didn't insult you neither did I make it confrontational, it can't deal with it then keep your mouth and leave us alone. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 18:29
@ya-yahya |
|
|
May 13, 2022 18:57
πππππ. Your points and wails are worthless because you have given yourself away already from the word "GO" Maybe you are one of those feminists who have a hard time letting in certain facts built by nature set in. In my opinion I feel you need a psychiatric assistance because my points were understood by many other women who open accepted. You don't speak for them. If that's your opinion then keep it to yourself and make peace what you are no one cares what toxicity you go through or what rejections you have faced just be kind and be a reason for the world to be a better place not trying so hard to overshadow others with your bigotry and baseless feministic |
|
|
May 13, 2022 19:25 If ALLAH says it's a most for a Muslim to respond to a salaam back then who in the world are you to say she doesn't have to respond because she is going through alot???? Who are you?? You have nothing to say, you have no argument at all here and no point to make neither. Just be silent and keep your peace. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 19:36
@ya-yahya |
|
|
May 13, 2022 20:49
@Ya-yahya |
|
|
May 13, 2022 20:59
Before you Judge Haider read through the thread from the beginning. Don't just conclude. I never forced anyone to reply. I just asked women to be responsive when people take in the effort of reaching out then the self righteous feminist came in with her big mouth. She can't be my mother mind you she is too small to give birth to me. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 21:09
@Lady A: You are more a Moron than anyone here. You are a bigot and a sadists who is looking to victimize others by venting your frustrations on them. You are just as miserable as your eternally single sadistic self. You can't find a husband with this abusive attitude and self righteous pretentious nature of yours. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 21:16
Ya_yahya |
|
May 13, 2022 22:40
Salaam all. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 22:45
@Farid thank you for the kind reminder. For the sake of ALLAH I won't argue with her again In Shaa ALLAH. She isn't worth a response anymore. |
|
|
May 13, 2022 22:57
@ya-yahya |
|
May 14, 2022 02:01 @Lady A πππππππ |
|
|
May 14, 2022 02:09
I can't believe this long discussion about why a woman doesn't reply.π |
|
|
May 14, 2022 02:27
Why women don't answer π’π€§ why women don't marry a poor guyπ’ππ€§ why women are fake (because I couldn't find a wife yet) why women don't like me, why women don't see me why why why π€§ |
|
|
May 14, 2022 03:43 I wouldn't want to be around people like this. I so glad I'm not. |
|
|
May 14, 2022 04:34 Cause we kreeps! |
|
|
May 14, 2022 04:53 I don't think they are creepy Amir, I just enjoy their mentality. |
|
|
May 14, 2022 04:56 Constantly analysing everyone else's mental state,not often seeing their own.. overlooking any nice qualities that someone has. It's horrible being around people like that, I avoid people like that. |
|
|
May 14, 2022 04:58 No one likes to be around people that are always nit picking about someone else. |
|
|
May 14, 2022 04:58 I'm glad those people are not in my life, and I'm glad that I escape from people like that. |
|
|
May 14, 2022 06:17
Allah is beautiful |
|
May 14, 2022 07:01 Lol well said precious men in this forum are really drama queens |
|
|
May 14, 2022 07:23
@Lolitah |
|
|
May 14, 2022 07:23
@Lolitah |
|
|
May 14, 2022 12:32
@Lolitah @Precious |
|
|
May 14, 2022 12:47 Ψ΅ΨΫΨ |
|
May 15, 2022 02:19 Why all men here have only one thing is to criticize women and claim on them!!! Seriously if someone don't reply you doesn't mean he's impolite + even if there are so many fake profiles in both gender you can ask for a video call before going on in the conversation. Come on people aren't stupid and now you can know the real one just by some steps!! |
|
May 15, 2022 03:42 Many sisters have not answered me back after reading my opening message to them, that is their right as the women of this ummah. Perhaps they don't want the poor brothers, do you want that sort of woman? I tell them I am poor on purpose, compared to some Canadians its true. Then I see what happens. Those that wanted a rich Canadian and so stopped talking to me, good riddance. |
|
|
May 15, 2022 16:01
Brother's if you are financially poor you nrrd settled family |
|
|
May 15, 2022 16:55
Let's be honest, why some old women here, call men all bad words? Isn't this some kind of bad experiences with some men? π€ |
|
|
May 16, 2022 03:55 All this name-calling is just sad. Muslims are supposed to be better than this. Manners, people. |
|
May 16, 2022 07:05
Farid, May Allah reward your efforts and may He guide us all, Ameen. |
|
|
May 16, 2022 08:00 I completely agree with Az zubair's brother |
|
|
May 16, 2022 10:04 As a man I don't want any one calling me a drama queens. I accept drama Kings onlyπ |