Asalaam Alaikum. If our muslim sisters in here don't make a move to change their intentions and expectations on the factors to consider for the right man for marriage/Family and Nikkah in line with what Allah commanded and what Rasool taught us, then trust me they will end up blaming Allah and others for not being able to find a husband . And if they find one; it will be the one who is going to oppress them.and end up loosing faith in love.
Life that you're seeking in your expectations for marriage is based on a 1 or 2 hours Fantasy Movies or dramas. Its not a reality. So much to loose...for the sake and pleasure of Allah.