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Assalam everyone, So I met a lady a few days back, she even posted something here about a man being so rude in which I also commented and the post to me looked genuine. Anyway, we start talking and I ask her after speaking to her for about 2 weeks that I would like to see her picture, she says fine add me up on insta. So after adding on insta when I ask her about the picture she changes the topic, and this goes on for another week. We spoke about for around close to a month. No picture. Everytime i ask for a picture in the middle of our conversation she keeps quite and then I get a message after a few days assalam how are u, as If nothing happened. This goes on for many days. Then finally im like I cant talk to a faceless person so send me a picture as you promised. No reply. Next day she sends me a picture of the food she cooked ( she knew I enjoyed cooking). So I say You look like prawns and cabbage by the way the food looks yummy. I dont what she made of that. She said are you calling me prawns and cabbage? So I said yes thinking she's continuing the joke because I had the last night asked for a pic of her face not food. And I had asked every time we spoke and she dodged it. She didnt even say maybe after a month or never. She said nothing. She said ur so rude man I'm going to block you. I said change ur mindset it'll help u a lot in life, may Allah bless u. Her profile it says, 'wont do things that's not me to attract somebody, pfft'. Anyway, I also felt she had some weird kinda ego issue or attitude maybe from experience I don't know, but when she posted a message on the forum, she sounded like an angel..
The thing is I feel the majority of the women here or in the world at the moment have lost their way. Their big time hypocrites. They love the insta social media attention world and if you don't give them they feel offended. They want to chit chat and u make them feel good, give them the attention basically woo them. I ain't gonna woo anyone! Cmon! If you can recognize qualities in me that u think are something that u want in a partner good enough, we're not dating sweetheart, this is not tinder, jeez. Anyway so just know fellas, most of the women out here which means 98% or 95% just wanna chit chat, take the attention and u woo them like in movies, goodness! Some people are way too distracted by the ways and tricks of the so-called masters of the world ..may Allah just guide us and clear our hearts and heads. Warning people! All this social media, movies or whatever, gym, fitness, whatever all is nonsense to distract you and depress you, just be happy smile and love Allah the most, with him around u u need nothing at all. Chill out folks. Allahafiz
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 17:01 i agreed with you bro just chill she probably ugly or what? most woman here when i dont have pic they want to see me but they are faceless if you say no you are blocked if you sent they away , i believe most of them into wealthy man its in my experience that i usually facing it with some woman lolzzzz |
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Jan 17, 2021 18:04
It comes down to power. We live in a feminist society in which women have most of the power. If a woman is on social media and she is worshipped by 1000's of desperate men, who are willing to give her free attention, validation (complements), free food, then why would she marry or even take you seriously? unless you're a smoking hot male model and/or very wealthy, you're probably number 174 on her list of men that she could get with. Of course she will mess you around because you have 1% power, while she has 99% power. |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 18:29 single guy your talking behalf of me well done , thank you all truth unfortunately that is way g a y and transgender very common here lolllsszzzzz !!! it is femin country and shame ! |
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Jan 17, 2021 19:11 Na I actually didn't ever start a conversation...she was the one messaging me all the time. Asking me how's my day etc.π I asked her picture twice just to remind her. Though I understand your point. Never in my life have I ever done that thing π for me brother you take a step so will I. 1=1. As I mentioned I felt since I didn't give her any attention she got a little miffed. Point is I'm glad I didn't invest myself in her because I told her we're gonna start a proper conversation when you show me ur face, but I don't know why u making stuff up π but I get your point brother. |
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Jan 17, 2021 19:13 Jeez I don't take myself seriously why would take her seriously π when her start was bad. She needs to give me something to make me take her seriously. |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 19:26 brother my story cannot ebds to write you down here about a woman who has s*x with her dad and begin crazy for me .. but when i asks her her picture without makeup she got angry and reported me to the police !! lol amazing world we live and the day of akhirah alhamdulillah very near,, except prophet solomon noone else speaking to an animal but in uk everyone none muslim speaking to the an animals do you know why? because they are an animal .. animal understand other animals language that is way woman has more power than us!!! |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 19:49
Abrar sahb there could be many reasons, mostly psychological and self confidence where you try to crack a joke and they take it as an offence with out looking at the bigger picture |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 19:59 And you do not which one is witch π |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 19:59 just me ? lol bro you πππ agreed it happens to me already they took offensive my jokes to the police stations and ban me from her side .. i rather kill myself but not to be under this country law .. fo no reasons been custody and interviewed lol ππππ€£ππ€£π€£π |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 20:02 i really like here rather than looking for someone else to understand about women in this country lol .. the uk commissioner threat me that she gonna cut my benefit if i dont sleep with her in 2013 and with her daughter , but in returns i gave my middle finger the biggest one lol she was very upset , i was gorgeous in teenage time woman were crazy about me alhamdulillah i didnt touch them and still virgin alhamdulilah lol |
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Jan 17, 2021 20:46 ππ happens man. |
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Jan 17, 2021 20:56 People need to chill and laugh and smile more π just don't hurt people. I kinda find the funny side in almost everything. I've noticed the serious ones are usually kinda weak I mean I guess they put up this fake I'm intense and strong π I mean you can be strong from the inside and still laugh. You can still not let take advantage of you and laugh. If you laugh and smile more doesn't mean ur stupid or ignorant or vica versa. These serious types i just want to tickle them π because they try to put up a defense mechanism since I find many of them actually pretty fragile |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 21:01
There we go |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 21:13 Human because there is no human that will take a bride in such way. |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 21:26 just you bro? i am not talking about my wife lol i am talking about the uk commissioner was the customer of my boss and i was a driver in 2013 in barnsley west yorkshire , she was drunk and want me have gigi gigi with her than i refused her but i say as general middle finger to make you smile!! πππππ€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 21:27 i said earlier im alhamdulillah still virgin lol |
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Jan 17, 2021 21:52 Two English boys having a hard time understanding each other π€ in English. Urdu anyone? π |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 22:01 now i feel like i am a taxi driver when customer enter your car instead of hi how are you . straight away where are you from originally .. so any sisters mailing me here first question they say lets renew your passport . where are you from originally and how long have you lived in the uk?π€π€π€ |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 22:13
I would live it to that point but we need to reason like muslim adults. |
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Deleted User Jan 17, 2021 22:25 please tell me about woman in this country i do appreciate it coz i dont have experience about woman thank you and jazakallah |
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Jan 18, 2021 06:17 So this lady comes back and follows me back on Instagram and messages me 'i asked for your food photo and you said I look like prawn allhamdulillah, may your daughter get a prawn face' π€π Jeez. Should this site have a mandatory English test before signing up? π€ |
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Jan 18, 2021 06:24 She was so eloquent few days back in her post π€£π€£ why can't people be honest? Not everyone is a saint anyway only Allah knows. |
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Deleted User Jan 19, 2021 01:19 Bro next time learn a lessons OK. Beautiful woman always want to show they are beautiful but I ask refugee from Allah to forgive me about what I say now that ugly one never want to show you their face and talking like they came back from heaven until you trapped so be careful brother next time... I'm crying every day every night for a woman I lose for my stupid attitude... I will die soon if someone not replacing her and I'm not well at all please don't forget me in your prayer about her I want she back to me. Jazakallah w khairan |
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Jan 19, 2021 10:10 I don't know if she was beautiful or not brother. As a thumb rule the good looking ones usually act pricey vica versa. But the gem's are the one's who are humble and honest. Easier said than done. Relax bro it's okay, please don't talk of dying π Remember the only one that'll love you more than anyone even your parents is Allah. Don't go to a psychiatrist, Allah is the best psychiatrist, the best friend, cry to him. Life is short hence I don't take myself seriously, just prepare yourself for judgement day, make your position and ask for forgiveness, cause we all are sinners. May Allah give us all what he thinks is best for us. Chill out and Smile ππβοΈππ΅οΈπ |
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Deleted User Jan 19, 2021 17:12
Thank you bro... I just made a point that she gone and she never come back. I want to her back to tell apologise about our hard time not to back to me marry me π |