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My dream husband where are you?

My dream husband where are you?

Dimple17 Created Jun 27, 2020 05:15
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I'm here because I want to look my half of deen.

 

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Kashif Riaz

Jun 27, 2020 19:00

I'm also searching for my better half but nobody even bother to reply. πŸ˜” πŸ˜” πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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Deleted User

Jun 27, 2020 20:59

paranormal activation )))

Farid

Jun 30, 2020 13:47

Most women here don't seem serious. Waste of time.

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Deleted User

Jun 30, 2020 15:17

Brother khashif look for some one in pakistan first many sistera are unmarried .

Abrar Qureshi

Jun 30, 2020 16:09

@doctor sahab I have heard Indian, Pakistani and most women on this website from our subcontinent want to go abroad that's what they're fishing for. I have been here since 2-3 month's now, i have received replies from every country and almost everyone replies so far except women from our subcontinent.πŸ€”

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Deleted User

Jun 30, 2020 18:40

you are right brother i 😁😁 messaged one sister ,she didnt reply do you what i mesaaged her again .so she deleted her profile .
i messaged her you have taken a promise not to marry your own country men because you think they are losers or not handsome .
because u want to marry some uk muslim and usa man .may Allah do the same you did with us .

Abrar Qureshi

Jun 30, 2020 18:47

I guess your right brother.

Abrar Qureshi

Jun 30, 2020 18:54

And i believe this is not only in our subcontinent...there are people from other countries that will only entertain people specifically from the US, UK or Australia...these are the hotspots. They think people from their own counties are useless and somehow people from across the land are special or atleast better πŸ’β€β™‚οΈ. Good and bad people are everywhere, humans are same everywhere though there could be little differences of cultures thinking etc. But morals and values cannot change, that's what makes us human.

Abrar Qureshi

Jun 30, 2020 18:58

All in all obviously there is still nothing wrong with it every one has their reasons some want to escape the bad economic situations, some are persicuted as a minority etc. But please, have the guts write it on your bio and respond and tell the person exactly what you want. Don't waste each others time.

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Deleted User

Jun 30, 2020 18:58

i think they only think these are super powers they are ecnomically strong or just they want to tour these countries with there spouses😁

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Deleted User

Jun 30, 2020 19:00

if someone wanymt to marry he should visit a profile and ask her fathers no dont talk to her .
if you are sincere and brave enough .face the truth

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Deleted User

Jun 30, 2020 23:09

You learn things about life before you get married..thats why its said that marriage is a completion of faith..all parts of your life are available to learn from. Peace and blessings be upon the Prophet.

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Deleted User

Jul 1, 2020 02:53

its completion of faith my friend because your gaze is lowered and your iman is protected other wise it will remain in venerable and compromise state .
if you marry some women and keep on looking for other girls then your faith is not complete you have just wasted ,your money your life.

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Deleted User

Jul 10, 2020 12:10

@DIMPLE17 dream spouse only can be found in two different places. One in Jannah and the other in make believe Bollywood

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Deleted User

Jul 17, 2020 10:53

With the money, we can buy a spouse, but not a life partner.
With the money without being funny, you can buy a house without a doubt but not a home.
With the money, you can buy a clock, but not time to suit your crime as it comes from the Divine.
With the money, you can buy a bed, but not sleep as you weep.
With the money, you can buy food to suit your mood, but not appetite.
With money, we can buy information or education but not enlightenment.
With the money, you can buy a doctor, but not good health.
With money, we can buy knowledge, but not wisdom.
With the money, you can have insurance for confidence, but not safety.
With the money, we can buy people, but not friends or love.
Money can make you laugh, cry or betray or go crazy, and you can buy lots of things, but not the peace of mind; it can only be found where money cannot reach as it is from the Divine.
But this is the problem we all have or face.
There are things you cannot buy with material wealth, money.
poem β€˜With the Money You Can Buy!’
Poem by Me

seeking happiness

Jul 21, 2020 18:25

Insha-Allah! there is some made for each of us, being a muslim teaches us one word more than anything else 'SABR' which we fail to do. It's not going to happen in our time but on the time that Allah has selected for us ( which Insha-allah) will be more rewarding.

I am a 40+ single lady who has not been married before and is on this site looking for one genuine person so i can complete my Dheen, I have created the attempt the rest is I leave up to the all mightly- He knows best!

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Deleted User

Sep 16, 2020 03:07

Girls jist talk some don't even bother to reply back

R A.

Oct 2, 2020 11:17

When i appraoched you, you never even bother to reply or had a decency to respond.

Dont write that where are you my husband.
If you Serious then inbox me and lets talk to settle down. Unless you dont want it.

Shahraz 007

Oct 2, 2020 23:27

Does the R A stand for Really Annoyed my brother....I'm thinking after that outburst that ship has sailed.

ALIWISEMIND ke

Sep 26, 2021 07:32

πŸ˜‹, is this dating thing allowed in Islam? Am doing it, may be, but deeply within me, am against it. Is it because may be, the world has changed!
I believe its wrong because;
1. Chatting with the opp gender....I don't want ti say its haram but...the prophet says that in case two people of opposite genders are alone, the third of them is shaytwaan. Islam also asks as to stay far away from Zinaa
2. It might reach a stage where you video call or voice call and their voice is doubtlessly aura, so. The prophet us to look at other people's aura. Meaning the calls are haraam, better the chats
3. A woman is not allowed to receive more than one proposal at a time. So, in this sight, it is suppossed if you are interested in a girl and you tell her. She must at first at first be proposalless before she accept to chat with you. And if she feel like no, she should answer you and move on to the next man. I feel like texting multiple men at a time without the consent of the others is against the religion

But, if I look at the Swahabas, they only propose a girl when they want to marry them...and once they propose, the family decide whether its a rejection or acceptance, period

So, my thinking is I support @Deleted user that if we're truly religious, we should wait till when we're ready for marriage and then check their profiles. Lying is not allowed in Islam, so, we should clearly state our characters, good and bad so as we check those that we accept and arrange to meet their guardians

Once we propose to the guardians, they'll allow us to meet the bride-to-be physically, we confirm in case of any issue like disease and then, marriage

But this is 20th century, so much mistrust, fake and scammers. Can someone be truthful to clearly express themselves in their profiles, good and bad qualities? I mean, you say I want a UK, green, rich, religious, unpoligamous, tall, educated, hufadh man...its not that this is religion but her preferences.

The root of all these challenges we're facing is shaytwan. Remember, Iblis' one of his main goal is to seoerate couples. So, he want allow us to easily get our partners. He must shake our faith. Time, dating for too long is also a great problem, not to all, but to many. I acknowledge that some can decide a certain person and even wait for years without changing their decision

I was suggesting that if you are dating for too long, maximize your time to see if you are compatible fir each other. Once you decide, you can then stop talking about love and concentrate on other issues like you can chat about your goals, studies, character just as friends. You put aside your gender diff and trust that you are for each other just waiting for the time

As a summary;
1. Chatting may be makruh
2. Calling is haraam
3. Propose only when ready
4. A woman shouldn't chat with more than one man at a time
My point of view;
5. People should clearly express themselves in their profile
6. If you are interested you tell them
7. They thouroughly conversate with you to see if you are compatible
A. If you are not, they tell you and you move on
B. If you are, you mutually agree and chat as friends, not as bfs and gfs
8. When you are ready for proposal, you go to their guardians and they permit you to see her
9. The marriage is arranged

For my case, I can't update my profile because am not for searching for another girl. So, am closed, not dating
In case I date, I personally know the girl I want and her qualities. Once I spot her, its just her to know me and in case I want to know sth, I ask her. Then, we talk other issues. There are a lot to be discussed
Allahu aalam

 

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