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IS IT WRONG TO KEEP BEAUTY ALSO IN THE LIST?

IS IT WRONG TO KEEP BEAUTY ALSO IN THE LIST?

Abrar Qureshi Created Jun 25, 2020 02:26
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Wanted to know from everyone. Why is it considered such a self absorbent thing or a selfish thing or even unwise if one is keeping beauty in the list.

 

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Abu Maryam Al Salafy

Jun 25, 2020 06:55

Assalamu Aleykum ahi.. beauty, too, everyone has their own))each has its own taste, for example, I like women overweight women are not thin fat women .not high )). this is my standard of beauty,,someone likes tall thin women,, to each his own ..

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Beauty

Jun 25, 2020 08:11

Beauty is not just physical..there is lots of facets of beauty. Some people enjoy different types of beauty.

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Beauty

Jun 25, 2020 08:17

A lot of people first think of physical beauty when beauty its mentioned. It depends on what the individual means when they say it. How can a personal preferance or liking be self absorbed or selfish...unless your narrsissus! 😀😃😁

Abu Maryam Al Salafy

Jun 25, 2020 08:26

to each his own)) and the most beautiful women, of course, believing women,---The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: "Those women who enter Paradise for the good deeds that they have done on earth will be superior and more beautiful than the guria."

Abrar Qureshi

Jun 25, 2020 08:36

Well said both of you. May Allah be pleased with you and shower his blessings. Ameen.

Abrar Qureshi

Jun 25, 2020 09:26

@beauty I meant some people that i have come across who make others look like, this is about being indulged into their own thoughts about beauty or physical appearance being very important. Self indulgence in this thought. I actually hadn't slept for day's and i was almost about to pass out. It does look like i sound confusing.

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Beauty

Jun 25, 2020 10:32

Read the story of Narcissus..google it.
Its not good to be overly self absorbed physically. Some people may have been abused or neglected in some way in their past, and it may make them extremely narcissistic, or may lack self confidance about thier looks, so they hyperfocus on their outer apperance..so one must try to be compassionate to others, as you never really know why someone may seem to ve overly focused on the physical. And then some are just vain, and havent yet learnt the benefits of not being so vain. And some just get addicted to it, other than getting other addictions. Any way one becomes too selfish, it limits the amout of time you can be of service. Thats why its not so good..body, mind or soul. And we are here on earth as servents and stewards on the earth. So, being aware and being self critical is important islamically. Sigh 🙁 Hope you get a good sleep soon. 🙂 Remember; Lack of sleep makes you look older! 😃😀😄

Abrar Qureshi

Jun 25, 2020 12:23

Haha.. although mashallah I've been told i don't look my age.. but nevertheless sleep is one of the most important things..your right anything in access is bad and i completely agree in being self critical.. it's such a useful tool to become better and learn... shukriya

Amir

Jun 25, 2020 15:33

Beauty is in the eyes of beer-holder!

Amir

Jun 26, 2020 04:50

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Beauty

Jun 26, 2020 10:45

Alhammdullia, seems that beautiful house of Allah stayed on the list! Beauty mate! 😀

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Deleted User

Jun 29, 2020 06:25

beauty should be that you like ,not what others impose on u .if u dont like a woman dont marry her because its no use of marrying a woman which causes your state of marrying and unmarried remain the same and you keep on intrested in other women after your marriage .

Quran says in surah nisah marry those women who u like 2,3 ,4 😁

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Deleted User

Jun 29, 2020 06:30

physical beauty is important but if u are not able to be married to anyone and you are remained unmarried most of your life then it idls better to marry someone average just in case u dont want indulge in haram

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Beauty

Jun 29, 2020 08:55

Thats if you cant control yourself.

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Deleted User

Jun 29, 2020 12:10

this what whole young muslim ummah is going through ,and dont told their parents that cant control .u have to be brave to face the truth no shame in telling truth to any one

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Beauty

Jun 29, 2020 12:23

True. 😃

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Beauty

Jun 29, 2020 12:27

Yes, i think people should marry who they love.

 

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