Assalamu'alaikum Brother Sister,
what important qualities do you want in your husband or your wife?
For me, I think there are 3 qualities I wish in my husband later.
Nagging maybe is usual for a woman, although I wish I won't do much nagging and really wish can control my words even I am nagging.
A good husband is usually just quiet and listen to her because if she is nagging or worse and he speaks a lot in the same time, exactly that will be a never ending argue.
Even Saydina Umar RA when his wife is nagging he doesn't complain and just stay cool.
Sometimes what a woman needs just to be listened 😆
When she is already calm, you can talk sweet to her and she maybe listen you this time 😆
Rasululloh pbuh also has a conflict with his wife, that time sayyida Aisyah RA even raises her voice. In the same time her dad, saydina Abu Bakr RA visits her.
Knowing his daughter doesn't respect Rasululloh pbuh, he holds her hand emotionally and Rasululloh pbuh protects his wife immediately from her dad anger.
So even not in a good condition. like in a conflict, I wish my husband still be my protector, aamiin.
If all husband learns from Rasululloh pbuh insyaalloh there is no violence to a wife.
Life is like a roller coaster, so in any condition, I wish he can make me happy and laugh 😆
Rasululloh pbuh also a humorous husband.
We know sayyida Aisyah RA is ever jealous to sayyida Khodijah RA, and she said to Rasululloh pbuh daughter, sayyida Fatimah RA that her mom was a widow when married to her dad.
Listening this words she tells to her dad, and Rasululloh pbuh knows she is sad and he cheers up her. Tell to sayyida Aisyah RA, yes you are right my mom was a widow that time and she is married when he is still a virgin.
A smart joke 😆
No need to respond with bad words or anger 😆
So how about you?
Maybe Brother wants a wife whom you see when you have a problem and half problem is solved, just by seeing your wife?
That's sayyida Khodijah RA 😍
Or a young and smart wife such as sayyida Aisyah RA? 😁