1- Be open with your husband. Build trust by sharing your thoughts and feelings freely with him. Ask the same of him. Your relationship will grow in strength and health if you are honest with one another.
Communicate your expectations with your spouse. Tell him what you need from him, and ask him to tell you the same.
Understand that men and women have been created to be different, physically and emotionally, and each has a distinct role within a Muslim marriage.
Study the Qur'an and Sunnah to better understand your and your husband's rights and responsibilities to each other.
2- hare responsibilities around the house. You don't both have to do all the same work, but make sure that you both take on the responsibility of making your home a clean and pleasant place. The Prophet ﷺ used to help with chores.
Some partners may need to be reminded to help around the house. If your husband does not notice when things are messy, consider asking him to be in charge of particular chores.