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talk about marriage

Tonmoy Created May 14, 2020 23:32
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can age is important to mary each other? Sometimes we magnify it??When the Prophet (sw)married Khadija (ra) Anhar, who was older than him!

 

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Abu Hasan Al Salafy

May 15, 2020 04:43

age doesn’t matter, people themselves spoil everything,I would love to marry a woman at 50,today's young people don’t have what they need for marriage and a strong family,

Tonmoy

May 15, 2020 05:45

right brother!

Malik

May 15, 2020 09:09

many young Muslim girls in the head do not have what they need for a strong, religious marriage

Tonmoy

May 15, 2020 10:10

yeah,they always wanna a gorgeous and loyality gay.

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Deleted User

May 15, 2020 19:05

I agree with the above comments. Also to add, the young men of nowadays are fleeing from responsibility and in turn failing to embody manhood. We (both men and women) have become westernised in our thinking.. believing that the genders are the same and marriage is a "50/50" situation. I wanted to add that comment as to make this thread balanced (On helahel, forum threads seem to generally have biased opinion that generally portray women negatively) - age is not a gender specific issue. Age should not matter but the world is changing so rapidly that each generation is so different to the other hence making marriage (between them) difficult. This is why we need to cling to Islam and its' traditions. They never change.

Tonmoy

May 15, 2020 23:08

right.

Pearly

May 16, 2020 21:30

Since it's existed in Islam so it's a right path.
In another hand of lady Khadija's marriage, there is the story of lady sawda bent zama''s marriage, may Allah blessed with them. When the prophet peace be upon him offered her the divorce in order to marry someone else who would love her because she was old. But she selected to die as a prophet Mohammed's wife and released her nights to other wives. So it's up to everyone and up to how you look at this woman.

Pearly

May 16, 2020 21:47

Sorry _a correction* "released her nights to our mother Aisha may Allah be pleased with her

Abu Hasan Al Salafy

May 20, 2020 06:29

it is impossible to compare modern Muslim women with women of the time
the Prophet's Companions peace be upon them now there are practically no such women,

 

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