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Part of polygani family

Part of polygani family

☝️ Abu Safia Alsalafi 🧔🏻 Created Jan 26, 2020 07:16
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Assalam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh

I am wondering if there us sisters who want to be a part of polygani family. A family who have cowives in same house but in different bedrooms. A family who cowives treat eachother as friends, sisters and roomer who want to have share happiness and help eachother to go through trials and sadness.

I talked to people who is part of that kind of family: brothers who is children to an polyganist father, friends who is polyganist, and they said that the family is great and full of love and happiness.

Of course if jealousy is a strong part for one of the wives will not make that kind of relationship successful. But there is other sisters who fear Allah and see the Islamic lifestyle as benefit, not as trial.

 

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Amin

Jan 26, 2020 17:25

Asalam, I will be surprised if you find anyone here, there is no harm in trying

Demir

Jan 26, 2020 23:55

What is this, an ad for orgy?!

☝️ Abu Safia Alsalafi 🧔🏻

Jan 28, 2020 15:23

@Demir an ad for right Sunnah if you know it!

Demir

Jan 29, 2020 00:33

It was called sunnah 1500-1000 years ago, it is called orgy now!

Mimie

Feb 1, 2020 03:29

Guys just know Sunnah about polygami, even so many another Sunnah, easy Sunnah but we even never do it, ....they don't know how our beloved Rosulullah SallAllahu Alayhi Wassalam treat his wives, and how his wives. All of Rosulullah are widowed exept Ummu Fatimah Radhiyallahu Anha. We all know about Polygami from the Qur’anic verse:
“If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then (marry) only one…” [Al-Qur’an 4:3]
From this verse, it is evident that polygyny is neither mandatory, nor encouraged, but merely permitted. The Qur’an also warns about the difficulty of dealing justly between multiple wives:
You are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire: But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding, and practise self-restraint, Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.
[Al-Qur’an 4:129]

Pure Heart

Feb 1, 2020 03:37

Salam everyone
@ Mimie

Very accurate and ty for sharing sister. May Allah bless you and guide us all lnsyaAllah 🌺

Amir

Feb 1, 2020 18:07

There are polygamists in USA, even though polygamy is illegal. Almost all belong to the Mormon sect and live in Utah or north Arizona. There's large community in Missouri too, but those are reformed (don't practice polygamy). The way they evade the system is that they live among their own and the jury system which requires a jury of your peers (community). A judge merely imposes sentence on a guilty verdict handed by the jury, which never finds them guilty.

☝️ Abu Safia Alsalafi 🧔🏻

Feb 3, 2020 03:17

@Mimie, sorry your information is not correct:
1. Not all of prophets ﷺ was widowed, but Khadijah was and had two daughters before she married Mohammad ﷺ.
2. Monogamy was unusual in prophets ﷺ time. Most of sahaabah practiced polygani.
3. Sunnah of polygani don't deny other sunnah.
4. You misunderstood the vers 4:129. It doesn't mean that we should not practicing polygani. Read the tafsir please.

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Deleted User

Feb 8, 2020 17:35

wow Lool...

Good luck that’s all I’m going to say!

Azeem Razzaq

Feb 20, 2020 16:05

Well said @abu Safia Alsalafi, actually its our own will what we want and find such meaning from verses etc. And express its relation with Quran and Sunnah without having sufficient knowledge.

 

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