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Marriage.......!

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Marriage.......!

Nomijaral00 Created Dec 5, 2019 16:31
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"Marriage"
Love is not the name of unity and consciousness of myself and anyone else۔ I'm not isolated or lonely. But also after giving up my self-consciousness on my own, and uniting myself with others.
Marriage is essentially a moral relationship. Calling marriage a civil contract is wrong,It is not correct to consider marriage as a physical, sexual relationship. Marriage should be based on moral love, with only duties.

 

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Deleted User

Dec 5, 2019 17:11

The Holy Quran says,
“And marry those among you who are single and those who are fit among your male slaves and your female slaves; if they are needy, Allah will make them free from want out of His grace; and Allah is Ample-giving, Knowing.” (Surah an-Nur, 24:32)

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Deleted User

Dec 5, 2019 17:15

The above ayat begins with the words Wa Ankehoo (And marry…). The imperative form of the word ‘nikah’ implies that either it is obligatory or highly recommended.
According to scholars, though marriage is a highly recommended act, it becomes obligatory when there is a chance of falling into sin.

The Prophet (S) says, “No house has been built in Islam more beloved in the sight of Allah than through marriage.”

On another occasion the Prophet (S) said,
“The best people of my nation (Ummat) are those who get married and have chosen their wives, and the worst people of my nation are those who have kept away from marriage and are passing their lives as bachelors.” 3
Imam ‘Ali (A.S.) exhorts, “Marry, because marriage is the tradition of the Prophet (S).” The Prophet (S) also said, “Whosoever likes to follow my tradition, then he should know that marriage is from my tradition.”

A. Importance of s*x in Marriage
In Islam, marriage is not restricted to a platonic relationship between husband and wife, nor is it solely for procreation. The Islamic term for marriage, “nikah” literally means sexual intercourse.
So why has Islam provided extensive rules and regulation regarding s*x? This was because Islam has fully understood that sexual instincts cannot and must not be repressed. They can only be regulated for the well being of human beings in this life and for their success in the hereafter.
s*x in married life has been openly recommended in Qur’an,
“…when they [i.e., the wives] have cleansed themselves [after menstruation], you go into them as Allah has commanded…” (Surah al-Baqarah, 2:222)

B. Fulfillment of sexual Urge
The Holy Prophet (S) and the Holy Imams (A.S.) also encouraged their followers to marry and to fulfill their sexual urges in lawful ways as can be seen from the following: The Prophet (S) said, “O you young men! I recommend marriage to you.”
Imam Reza (A.S.) said, “Three things are from the traditions of the Messengers of God (A.S.): using perfume, removing the [excessive] hair and visiting one’s wife.”

C. Celibacy and Monasticism is Forbidden
Islamic is totally opposed to monasticism and celibacy. ‘Uthman bin Maz’un was a close companion of the Prophet (S). One day his wife came to the Prophet (S) and complained, “O Messenger of God (S)! ‘Uthman fasts during the day and stands for prayers during the night.” In other words, she meant to say that her husband was avoiding sexual relations during the night as well as the day. The Prophet (S) was angered. He did not even wait to put on his slippers. He went to ‘Uthman’s house and found him praying. When ‘Uthman finished his prayers and turned towards the Prophet (S), he said, “O ‘Uthman! Allah did not send me for monasticism, rather He sent me with a simple and straight [Shariah]. I fast, pray and also have intimate relations with my wife. So whosoever likes my tradition, then he should follow it; and marriage is one of my traditions.”

D. Beneficial Effects of a Married Life
Various studies prove that married people remain healthier, physically and mentally. Islam has always maintained that marriage is beneficial for us in many ways.
Islam also regards marriage as a way to acquire spiritual perfection.
The Prophet (S) said, “One who marries, has already guarded half of his religion, therefore he should fear Allah for the other half.” How true! A person who fulfills his sexual urges lawfully would rarely be distracted in spiritual pursuits.

E. Marriage Enhances the Value of Prayers
The Prophet (S) said, “Two rak‘ats (cycles) prayed by a married person are better than the night-vigil and the fast of a single person.”
A woman came to the Prophet (S) and said that she had tried everything to attract her husband but in vain; he does not leave his meditation to pay any attention to her.
The Prophet (S) told her to inform her husband about the reward of sexual intercourse which he described as follows: “When a man approaches his wife, he is guarded by two angels and [at that moment in Allah’s views] he is like a warrior fighting for the cause of Allah. When he has intercourse with her, his sins fall like the leaves of the tree [in fall season]. When he performs the major ablution, he is cleansed from sins.”

F. Marriage increases Sustenance
The Holy Prophet (S) remarked, “Give spouses to your single ones, because Allah makes their morality better (improves it) (under the shadow of marriage) and expands their sustenance and increases their generosity (human values).”

و الله اعلم

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Nomijaral00

Dec 5, 2019 17:24

This verse encourages women to marry women whose husbands have died and to be slaves and maids.
Marrying a widowed woman seems impossible in our society. Especially in the subcontinent, such a woman is not married and thus lives alone all her life.

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Nomijaral00

Dec 5, 2019 17:35

The purpose of marriage is not just s*x. s*x can lead to mental and physical comfort for a human being only when the desire of both parties is involved.Ethical love and moral belonging take into account all these things. In which a person considers the consent of the party necessary to establish a physical relationship. Islam has never called for coercion in s*x between wife and husband.

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Deleted User

Dec 5, 2019 19:30

A marriage Civil contract is a satanic idea to tighten and hinder marriages, and make marriage just a piece of crap, a business between two business partners. You have to sign the contract, because there is no trust in the other business partner.
The freemasons and Satan's army are ruining the world, wake up you sleeping sheeple.
In the Quran and islam, you write and sign a contract only in buying and selling, not in marriage, learn your islam and DO APPLY IT IN YOUR MISERABLE LIFE.

Quran 35:6
Indeed, Satan is an enemy to you; so take him as an enemy. He only invites his party to be among the companions of the Blaze.

Al Saud, the Jewish despicable craps who rule Saudi Arabia have demolished the houses of the sahaba and the wives of the prophet peace be upon him and built toilets on top of them, they built the clock wich is similar to Big Ben over the KABAA, on top of the clock there is an inverted crescent moon which represent Satan, and it was intentionally put above the word of Allah, which is written under the crescent moon, whgich signifies that satan may the curse of Allah be upon him is above Allah.
They put satan's obelisk on top of mountain Arafat, so that people will touch it and commit kufr and blasphemy.
All the Saudi army and police have a sign on their shoulders which represent the ONNE EYE of the DAJJAL, the anti christ.
They have build several monuments of the one eye in Saudi Arabia.

One of the signs of end times is the clock that casts shade on the Kabaa.
The saudi jewish s**ts al saud kill, toture and exile true muslim scholars and only allow shills to live and stay in religious positions, so that they can make wrong fatwas and lead all muslims astray.

There is no civil marriage in islam, and when you divorce a woman she can't take money from you and take your house and stuff except if she has kids from you, it is all for the sake of ruining families. And making men poor and letting women have their ways...etc. Evil schemes.

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Nomijaral00

Dec 6, 2019 04:27

Rights are paid only after divorce or death, before that there are only duties. I never talked about ending the marriage,

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Nomijaral00

Dec 6, 2019 04:29

Freemason, Aluminum is all just stories, with no element of truth in it, if it can survive in the world it is just truth,

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Nomijaral00

Dec 6, 2019 04:30

Illuminati*

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Deleted User

Dec 6, 2019 05:09

We need someone who actually cares, knows the girls and their parents and contacts, then choses the right man after they ask for certain characteristics in a lady and location.
Then contact the female, if yes, then contact parents to provide further info behalf of the man


That would be a great service and should be thanked kindly with real money to compensate the middle person that actually cares.

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Deleted User

Dec 6, 2019 11:39

@ aluminum, you said alright, because they spay the skies with Aluminum (AL) and Barium (BA) You get BA'AL which is one of their idols.
There is a lot of truth to it, the illuminati, the councel of 33, the bohemian grove, the skull and bones and all the other secret societies are REAL and they're ruling this world (asylum), they made our world a prison for our minds. And us slaves.

Research the matter, you seem very ignorant of it.

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Deleted User

Dec 6, 2019 12:04

@ Leenah,

Thank you for the post its a good reminder.

Jazaka-lahu Aeran

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One Love ❤️

Dec 6, 2019 14:37

#Nomijara100
I pitty your ignorance and I genuinely feel sorry for you...
Personally i think your a fake..

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One Love ❤️

Dec 6, 2019 14:41

#SamirDZ..
Bruv, I wouldn't bother with sheep..

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Deleted User

Dec 6, 2019 19:47

What your saying is that if two people love each other, its good for them to marry. Which is what the prophet peace be upon his soul has said. Im not sure what you call a "civil" marriage, yet ive seen couples married that are non muslim, and have stayed married for the rest of thier lives loving and taking care of each other.So, its best to not assume whats right or wrong.

 

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