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Multiple Divorces - Would you?

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Multiple Divorces - Would you?

Justme Created Nov 25, 2019 15:48
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Salam,

Would appreciate your comments on the following:-
Would you marry someone (male or female) if they have been divorced multiple times, say, two or three time?

May Allah (SWT) guide us all to the right path,to what HE likes and approves, amen.

Thanks and regards

 

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Justme

Nov 25, 2019 16:28

Marry - typo. Sorry

Jacob

Nov 25, 2019 17:22

Yes but you have to get to know them first. At least 6 months. Find out if she's the problem or the men are the problem. Don't jump into marriage quickly because you might be her next divorce

Jacob

Nov 25, 2019 17:23

Maybe the person was a slob. For example my ex-wife was a dirty slob and never wanted to clean and that was part of why we didn't get along and got a divorce. Plus she was a cheater and like to talk to men online.

Jowj

Nov 25, 2019 18:22

Asalaamu alikum, Any partner if they have what is takes then it should not really matter how many times they have been divored or with a child inn sha Alah.

Eleven Grand Rules of Existence
1. Remember your maker.
2. Honour your parents.
3. Keep ties with your kinship.
4. Make harmony with your past, so it does not influence the present.
5. What others believe about you is none of your concern.
6. Time cures almost everything, give it time.
7. Don’t associate your life to others and don’t judge them. You have no conception what their journey is entirely about.
8. It’s alright not to apprehend all the answers. They will appear to you when you least foresee it.
9. Thou are in charge of your happiness.
10. You don’t own all the struggle in the world.
11. If you cannot tolerate the past or future because they do not exist. What you are grieving are your memory and your imagination.
(Jowj 21-11-2019)

No longer be a slave to your past, future or fear.
The waves in the sea wash away the dirt and filth.
Do not be the slave that bonds you down with tears.
The glue wears away in time.
Some people act like a clown with crocodiles tears.
Money may take you a long way, and surely time does not.
(Jowj 24-11-2019)

SamirDZ

Nov 25, 2019 19:31

Divorced or not, you must check the manners and piousness.

Amir

Nov 30, 2019 01:33

One fountain of youth is multiple marriages. Each time you grow younger.

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Justme

Nov 30, 2019 09:12

Salam
Thanks for all the supplied comments, they are appreciated.

Brother Samir,
How am I suppose to check their manners and piousness? one can claim everything then they flip without a prior notice or warning!!

Brother Amir,
So do you get married for the sake of getting married?

Regards to all.


Amir

Nov 30, 2019 15:07

The more, the merrier !!!

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Justme

Nov 30, 2019 16:58

Ma shaa Allah - la qouataa ila Billah.

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Samer

Dec 1, 2019 02:16

Run for your life. Unless they were in exceptional circumstances and still be fearful and careful.

 

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