Asalaamu alikum, I have had soo many messages. Most of their profile contradicts what a practising Muslim person values should be.
It should be similar to these.
a) Must fear Allah of any major sins.
b) Practise all the obligatory (fardh) in deen.
c) Not to say I am practising yet they deny what Allah has made halal.
Marriage is a religious ceremony, and the etiquettes should be the same both sides.
I am not a professional. However, I am a psychologist. I will inn sha Allah do my best to answer any questions.