Al salam alikoum wa rahmout Allah wa barakatouh ...how are you brothers and sisters
I think I knew why we don't go any further in this site simply because it is not real .. I saw a girl profile with no pic. and she was 18 years old and when she signed up after 3 days only she got 87 MESSAGES and brothers still wondering why not they get any reply ..because we made this and it is not our fault like you should send to every girl to inc. Your chances so every single man send a well prepared message to very single women in this site like buying too many lottery tickets to ensure winning
And of course as a normal human being when you see that tremendous amount of messages you will get lost maybe with trying to pick the perfect "message" sender or the best looking guy and it tend to be more superficial and away from Islamic view about marriage ...And actually some young girls start to be fooled with this "fake" no. Of messages and tend to be overweening with a just number .
So I think simply try to introduce your family and let them read this angelic messages and your number will be reduced so much and actually you can't know a person from a first message and you can't marry a person from his messages for sure ... try to talk this is more practical talk about Islamic views ,raising children, materialistic life , shared responsibilities . Get a more deeper intellectual talk. Get to know the person and personality NOT HIS FIRST MESSAGE .
Check your compatibility with the MBTI personality analysis test which has 75% accuracy which is so much on typology but it is not perfect . May Allah bless each one with the righteous spouse allahoum amin
And don't forget to make do'aa and