can i ask something ? it's about Islam, dreams, women, career, and does the idea in Islam about women applicable in this age ? like keep being at home, not talking to the opposite gender, it's better for her to be just a housewife who has many knowledge, even talking to her own cousin should be minimized, cause if we're talking about dreams, about what women want for theirselves to be in the future, about pursuing their career, we won't be able to do any of that if we don't have network, n to build a good network needs our interpersonal ability to do that, meaning that we can't deny if we have to talk, or to deal with the opposite gender, a lot. sometimes, career doesn't mean only for money although the result in the end is money anyway, but things that we do, they define us, they define how we feel inside, or how the people view us as an individual. let's say, to guarantee that a woman will grow up as a religious n wonderful muslimah, just wed her with someone, build a home for her husband n childrens, n all that. do we have to give up our career dreams ? do we have to give up a part of our personality ? a part where we love to build a relationship with everyone including the opposite gender ? cause not all people r the same, not all people like to make friends with their gender only. you know what i'm saying ? so the point of my question is, how's the application in real life ? any better option ? or do we all have to be a doctor/ a nurse, a teacher, or a scholar of Islam only ? regarding that those careers have some safe circumstances according to Islam, well maybe a doctor deals with so many other males but that's ok cause the intention is we're helping people in need, well, this is hard to explain but u get my point aren't u ? just give me a better reason or insights that r applicable.
because, lately i've been thinking abt my own self, i've given up so many things, so many chances that once i didn't take at all just because i had to reconsider them based on what Islam will view it, for a very small example, i quit an organization just bcz there was a freedom of interaction between females n males, i once dreamed to go to a audition bcs i wanted to be a singer, but then i quit singing cz Islam says musics r haraam, i want to be a painter as my side skill too, but i can't always paint for sceneries only, i might paint some more challenging things like humans, or animals too, if i want to be an expert in what i want myself to be. but i quit all those anyway. n now, when i get older, n see another people get some things for theirselves, i don't have much things for myself, bcz i didn't take much chances before. these r just some examples.