بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم و الصلاة و السلام على نبينا محمد
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Permit me remind first to myself and every reader, may Allah have mercy on you, that real happiness in this world and the hereafter is granted only by Allah.
Part of the happiness of this world is having a righteous spouse who will help you in the religion. So worldly happiness and hereafter are connected. And real success in both is achieved by ADHERING to the GUIDANCE of The Most WISE, The Most MERCIFUL.
Let's just be wise enough to understand that WE NEED to enter COMPLETELY in Islam (submission to Allah) in order to achieve COMPLETE happiness.
Transgressing the limits of Allah day and night, not only secretly but openly, and even more, establishing proofs against ourselves by posting online our transgression only drives us further away from our goal.
In conclusion, we first need to CORRECT ourselves, our poor KNOWLEDGE of the religion, our WORSHIP, our MANNERS and completely submit ourselfs to Allah in order to achieve happiness, success, righteous spouse and the greatest of all, the LOVE and PLEASURE of Allah.
And all praise is due to Allah.