I found out that I was in search of love when I was 17. I found it when I was 23. She ended it when I was 49. So I have been in search for the second and hopefully the last time of my life. On my side no smoking, drinking, gambling, drugs, womanizing etc. but just work, family, nature, cycling, books and love. Life is so short, no time for games... "real experiences, real emotions, real humans" is my motto.
"Human is neither man nor woman. When man and woman become one, they become human."... Being a man and a woman is a present from God so that they can complete (not compete) each other to make human. So at that age of mine, I expect my spouse and friends to leave behind the outer and inner conflicts of mind so that to be able to focus on heart.
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P.S. Those are also welcome who have things to share/teach on science, spiritualism (mine is most close to Rumi+Tolle+Walsch), philosophy, history, politics, economy etc. I am not looking for intellectualism but informing those who have a plus for it.
We search for...
- Fun while it can not fill mind and heart,
- Intelligence while it mostly means loneliness,
- Family while it is not house-mates but sacrifaces,
- Honesty while it is tough to live with a honest person,
- Self-being while it is to make oneself visible to everyone,
- Wisdom while it comes only by self-being and forgiveness,
- Love while it is not a happy end but to jump into the strongest storm willingly and daily.
