salam alaikum, I would like to be as much honest as i can about me. I think everyone has problems in life and everyone has good things in life. If we only think and ponder of good even if its less good that Allah has given us in dunya and thank Allah for His favors upon us then we would feel so good about them and about problems, if we only see there must be more people who have more severe problems than us, so we should ask Allah for His help, this would make us even feel in the problems, closeness towards Allah as Allah says in qur'an, interpretation of the meaning:
"Or think you that you will enter Paradise without such (trials) as came to those who passed away before you? They were afflicted with severe poverty and ailments and were so shaken that even the Messenger and those who believed along with him said, ‘When (will come) the Help of Allah?’ Yes! Certainly, the Help of Allah is near!"
"Verily, We sent (Messengers) to many nations before you (O Muhammad). And We seized them with extreme poverty (or loss in wealth) and loss in health (with calamities) so that they might humble themselves (believe with humility)."
May Allah we always thank You for your uncountable favors upon us and may Allah we are never put into trials, ameen. But if we are put into trials then oh Allah give us patience and forgive our sins, ameen. But we MUST rely on Allah in every part of our life, in good or bad and only His help should be sought, ameen.