Lebanese American Muslim. I Like to hunt, fish, camp, and be in nature some days, and I also like video games on other days.
I have religious goals and dunya related goals I want to attain. I want to learn Arabic and memorize the Quran. I want to do hijrah and live in a Muslim country, in a few years if Allah wills. As I work remotely I can live anywhere and our currency would be worth more there than here as well.
The Prophet (sallahallahu alaihi wasalam) said: “I disown every Muslim who settles among the mushrikeen.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 2645; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
Also Allah measures the distance of your birth and death place and raises you that much in Jannah. So it’s definitely a goal of mine!
I currently work remotely as a Business Development associate and recruiter for a company. The purpose of marriage has to be to get better as Muslims. I do the morning and evening dhikr, pray the sunnah, fast the 3 white days and Monday/Thursday, sometimes I pray tahajjud (will be easier once I'm closer to the masjid Inshallah), I don't listen to music, I eat halal meat only, I give dawah under the guidance of scholars and have read countless Islamic books and fatwas, I have the beard, I fear none but Allah, I speak the truth, I avoid all riba including mortage, I give zakat/sadaqah, I can financially support myself and a family Allah willing, I forgive and restrain anger, I have patience, etc. I hide these deeds and keep them between Allah and I, but for the sake of attracting a lady who has high iman, I reveal them here. These are bare minimum things to me. To get better, I would want to learn Arabic, read the Quran more, fast every other day, pray more sunnah, do hijrah, pray all my prayers in the masjid, do hajj and umrah, memorize more dhikr, etc.
Also I accept polygamy and would want my wife to as well, as I have a wife currently and she is fine with me having more than one wife.
Ibn 'Abbaas said to Sa'eed ibn Jubayr: “Marry, for the best people of the Muslim Ummah are those who have the largest number of wives.” [Al-Bukhari and Ahmad]
Scholars I like to listen to or read from are Imam Anwar al Awlaki, Ibn Nuhas, Adbul Razzaq al Mahdi, Abdullah al Muhaysini, Zakir Naik, Asim al Hakeem, Muhammad al Munajjid, Ibn taymiyyah, the 4 imams, and a few others, may Allah have mercy on them and preserve the living among them. I like Arif Abdulaziz and Muhammad ibn Sireen for dream interpretations, I like Bilal Abdul Kareem, Yvonne Ridley, 5PillarsUK, CJ Werleman, Daniel Haqiqatjou, Suleiman Ahmed, and Paykhar for media/journalism. I support the Islamic Emirate of Afghanistan as it implements Islamic law/justice.
I'm looking for a conservative Muslimah, or one who is open to getting better on her deen such as wearing the hijab/niqab, does her prayers and sunnah, mandatory and nafil fasting, zakat/sadaqah, etc are bare minimum things. Believing that Allah's laws are way better than man made laws like democracy, plus I want to be in al-sham. I want a lot of kids and couldn't put a number on it, Allah knows best.
Likewise good character, characteristics of a Muslim women mentioned in the Quran are patience, obedience to the husband in reasonable matters, loyalty, kind, and God fearing. Pretty much all things mentioned in a Quran in relation to a wife. A lady that doesn't exaggerate or make bad assumptions, but one who thinks good of me.
Someone with similar interests would be preferred as well, I'm not clingy and wouldn't want a wife that is clingy, I want a wife who values her time alone as well as in each other's company, space is very important. I don't feel attachments to this world and so I feel it appropriate to mention this for women who want to spend all their time with their husband. I know my role as the husband and what Allah has enjoined me.
