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Assalamu Alaikum,
I am a sister, seeking a compatible spouse for my younger brother. My brother is the youngest of 4 siblings, and we were all born in the UK.
My brother is an incredibly caring person with a very kind heart, always willing to help others. He is a compassionate being with upmost integrity. I would describe him as someone who's totally reliable, with a nice and gentle nature, very hardworking and a most spectacular and fully devoted father to his 4 children Masha Allah, 2 girls ages 7 & 14 and 2 boys ages 8 & 16. He has been blessed with 4 kind, healthy, sweet children with wonderful personalities.
He is a single parent, and the children are totally in his care, full time. The mother has chosen not to see the children. His key objective is to ensure their happiness and stability and to this effect he has built an incredibly stable, safe and happy home for his children and is fully hands on with all their needs i.e. food, cooking, cleaning, homework, school runs etc. The kids emotional and physical wellbeing is his most important goal, Alhamdulillah and to have the loving support of a partner to whom he can share his respect and love also. He would love to experience the beauty of his first Hajj with his wife so they both have magical memories to cherish and bring them closer to each other and Allah.
He was also the best son any parent could ever wish for. Sadly, both our beautiful parents have passed on from this world, and May Almighty grant them the highest ranks in Paradise, Ameen.
Alhamdulillah, he regularly performs his daily prayers and observes Ramadan. He is practicing of his faith but is constantly striving to learn and improve further to achieve the pleasure of Allah. He doesn’t listen to music (only nasheeds), nor smoke, has a beard, and tries to avoid unislamic practices as much as he can. Therefore he does not partake in Milaads and Khathams. His 4 children all attend a Muslim faith school and are beautiful kind natured souls, Subhan Allah.
Even though he has a busy schedule, including his most important role of being a father, he still manages to find time to keep himself fit and strong and to consume a clean and healthy diet for himself and his children.
HE IS LOOKING FOR:
I ask Allah to grant him a righteous spouse who will be a means of support for him and his children to attain Jannah. Ameen
My brother is looking for a partner who is a UK resident. A very kind and empathetic person, who is a loving and caring woman, with good values, so you can support each other as a team, as special friends with a solid bond, to both achieve the pleasure of Allah whilst having a peaceful home and a loving family life. This would entail not working, and being a full-time wife and mother - the best and most prestigious, respectable role Allah has prescribed for the woman.
Love and respect for each other are key qualities that form strong foundations from which is built a solid and happy marriage.
A partner who is naturally family orientated, and a homemaker. Someone who is keen and happy to be part of a readymade family and is able to understand, appreciate and manage the challenges and goodness that come with this.
A special woman with a soft, gentle heart and soul, who has a natural loving nature and is equally kind and fluffy towards his children. A mother’s status is the most honourable position granted by The Almighty. “Jannat lies at the feet of the mother”. Alhamdulillah.
He is looking for someone who understands and respects his obligations to his children, and who would like to share and support him in his parenting role as well as build a beautiful, friendly, joyous relationship with him and take each other to Paradise InShaa Allah.
He would prefer someone who is practicing and seeking to develop themselves further in their Deen. A woman who naturally possesses modesty in her character and nature and does not wear make-up. Also, someone who does not have or spend time on any social media platforms (including W App).
Dress code is incredibly important. He does not want someone who wears tight clothing or vibrant colours.
He would like someone who observes the Hijab and wears an abaya, preferably the colour black in public, as dark colours draw less attention as he feels it is his obligation and duty as a husband to protect his partner and pave the path for her to the ultimate home in Paradise.
Allah has made us all unique in our personalities and characters and it’s all about those 2 particular souls, finding each other in this world to begin their journey together of completing their Deen, with true, authentic love and respect for each other. Also, with genuine affection and care for the children, who are pure innocent souls, in order to reach the highest ranks together in the ultimate world, the Hereafter InShaa Allah.
If you do feel there is compatibility, please send an invite or message Insha’Allah. May Allah grant you goodness and happiness in your search. Ameen
