I was a Curriculum Manager and teacher in Further Education when suddenly, 8 years ago, I became a single parent. I am white British revert. I am quite chilled, easy going with a good sense of humour. I am house trained, trustworthy and faithful - these last eight years have taught me good housekeeping skills so housework would be shared - help each other and halve the time spent on chores
. I have 3 children living with me whom I care for - Son 26, from my first marriage who has Multiple Sclerosis and learning difficulties (I left my first marriage when I discovered my wife and best friend were having an affair). He is a good young man and very helpful. Son 13, from my second marriage who has Aspergers Syndrome. He is a kind and caring person, but is quite lazy and only helps when asked and does so with a moan and a groan. His Aperger's is mild and only manifests itself when he is very upset (which is rare) but he is easily calmed. Daughter 7 is an angel - always helpful and very caring (second marriage was to a Moroccan woman who couldn't cope with children and housework while I worked hard. A woman whom once in UK acted like one of the "s*x-in- the-city" Girls - all Jimmy Choo shoes, Gucci handbags and night clubs - turned into a severe snob - physically and mentally abused our children ). I have never hit my children and never will. No-matter what my burdens or struggles, I still keep my happiness and remain thankful to Allah.What am I looking for?
Good Muslim woman who is also chilled out and has a good sense of humour and is not materialistic. Hopefully someone who can help me with raising and caring for my children and school runs, shopping and housekeeping - and I mean help me - not be a slave for me as I am not lazy. Be a good friend, be supportive and a lifetime companion - as I will be all this and more for you. Someone who likes to help the less fortunate - maybe do some voluntary work at weekends with me i.e. help feed the homeless, fund-raiser activities. Someone who likes films, swimming, cycling, walking and sometimes cuddle-up on the sofa with pillows, a blanket, a dvd and a Halal takeaway - Curry anyone? I don't drink so hope you do not either. I don't want a wife who thinks smacking and hitting is ok . I've never hit a woman in my life - wives are for loving not hitting - no matter what. I truly am a good, kind, caring and faithful man who helps others always - including total strangers - I try to ensure I do at least one good deed per day. I fear nothing or no-one but Allah. Perhaps there is a good woman out there for me? Someone who wants to earn rewards by helping a good man who is lonely and without friends or family to help him. Help a man who could do with his burdens being lessened. Help a man who needs time and help to study Arabic and Islam. Care for a man whom has cared for others his whole life. Perhaps this woman is you? If it is you, then I will make you feel special, feel safe, secure, feel needed, wanted and trusted. I will help you achieve your goals, will listen to you, always notice you and try hard to learn your moods - happy and sad ones. My goal will be to make you happy and contented every day of your life. Inshallah.
