Picky and ignorant women.

Picky and ignorant women.

Bhulji86 Created Nov 29, 2017 18:57

Hello and I want to say that the women here are picky. They look for handsome men. They also ignore people of the East. I have many a times sent women of the west messages and just a few replied. They think all eastern men are green card lookers, while they are not. Please women understand that it is not the face that counts it is the moral that counts. What good it is if you are beautiful and immoral? So if the moral is bad then the beauty is useless. Also we all are beautiful as god has created us so we should not say this or that one is ugly. So please reply ladies and not you not reply.


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Dec 3, 2017 09:08

If someone is not interested in you, why would she needs to reply to you, just to tell you that she is not interested? Silence is also an answer.


Dec 3, 2017 10:35

Well silence is rudeness you can also say you are not interested by saying thanks for sending a message but I am not interested. What is the meaning of communicating? It is to send and receive. Failing to reply is to show that you are ignoring and uneducated as educated people understand the meaning of communication. No matter what it is when you have a message you are supposed to reply. Also here we are not talking about interest rather we are talking about being picky.


Dec 3, 2017 10:39

Silence is answer when you already know each other.
But not responding to someone's message is kinda rude...

Plz don't get offended by this opinion... you can simply say i am not interested and the other person should also understand your response.



Dec 3, 2017 10:48

Salaam aleykum dear brother of Pakistan. Thanks for sharing my mind and for accepting my opinion. May Allah bless you with a good woman. Ameen.

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Dec 3, 2017 11:02

Ok, I thought about what you said and I must say you are right. Muslim sisters should be genuine to everybody. I should probably work on my behavior with strangers. I invite all other sisters to follow me in this step by simply answering on NOT INTERESTING MESSAGES with one short and genuine: "I am very sorry, but I don't find myself interested in you. May Allah finds you a woman you will be pleased with."...or something like that.

I would also like to give my public apology to everybody who didn't receive* any answer from me and those are many, cause I answered only...well maybe to 3 - 4 people here.

*Note to one specific man who reads this: I wanted to write *didn't received* but then I remembered your small grammar lesson from the other day. ☺

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Dec 3, 2017 11:31

..and about being picky...this is probably true but speaking about myself...I don't need absolutely anything from a man who contacts me for the first time. I just need A CLICK! One simply click in my head that will push me to involve deeper with him. I may have 1000 preferences in my head about how my future husband should be, but one simple click can beat them all.

For example: I don't usually answer to people who don't have a profile picture. This specific man didn't have any picture on the beginning, his bio was too short which is also a minus for me, he is younger than me, imagine 7 years younger and I was always attracted by men much older than me..his first message was short and I prefer longer messages cause you need to introduce yourself in a decent way to someone.

But...I had a CLICK with him. There was one word, just one word in his message that took my attention. And imagine: that word was actually a spelling mistake!

And now we're exchanging messages longer than this page.

That click is not just a click, it can be simply called a DESTINY.

May Allah chooses what's best for you cause we really don't know what's best for us.


Dec 3, 2017 12:17

Azra it is nice that you got the meaning of my say and it is also nice that you will do that. Regarding getting a spouse or partner yes let us or we have to leave it in the hands of Allah but forget not that the very same lord says try and leave it up to me in giving you what you want. So we should try to find a spouse while it is in the hands of the lord and not we do no thing and say Allah will do it.

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Dec 3, 2017 16:12

You are right, I just say that we should follow our inner voice in choosing a partner, and we shouldn't always look into the preferences made from our brain. If some sister reads this, this is also my genuine advice to her.

If you have some "click" with a man and you like his emaan, don't think too much about distance, fortune, his hight or I don't know what...

You mentioned a good looks or something like that. I visited your profile and I must say that you are a good looking brother. So don't lose your confidence just because you didn't got many replies here. You probably wrote to a wrong women. Wrong for you but maybe the right for someone else.

Maybe change your approach and see what will happen. Women like to feel special, believe me I can tell the difference between a message sent to me as an individual, and a group message sent to many.

Be patient, inshaAllah the right thing will come to you when you even don't expect it.

Good luck to everybody!


Dec 3, 2017 17:02

Azra thanks for those words and you have made me feel happy. You too are good looking and I pray that you get a good man. I feel my way of getting to a woman's heart is a good way. I look not at age, colour, wealth and other things, I think this is the right way of looking for a woman as if we will look at race or age then we will lag behind and not get good people also to look at the mentioned things is unislamic as god says do not ignore people. Now if I do not get a woman despite of this approach then certainly god has something for me otherwise why would any woman say no to me.


Dec 4, 2017 00:26

This site seems to have a lot of room for improvement, I would like to see the addition of marital status, like never married / married, divorced, widowed, no of children, living together or not, etc and preferences. This will improve response rate as we are approaching someone knowing their preferences.


Dec 4, 2017 04:41

Yes brother.


Dec 5, 2017 04:04

The reality is that there are not many genuine female potentials here. If there are any, they will list so many prerequisites that only a Prince is suitable for them. The rest of them are sweet talkers who are scammers out to get your money!


Dec 5, 2017 15:19

True it is what you are saying motorcom. It is what I said before and in my first comment here, that women in this website look at looks and are choosy hence the headline picky and ignorant women. I wish they stop to do that.


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